FALL INTO benandsteve.com THIS AUTUMN

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🍂  You’re in the Right Place This Fall! 🍂

As autumn rolls in, we want to thank every one of you for stopping by BenAndSteve.com. By coming here, you’ve chosen more than just another news site. You’ve found a space where information, perspective, and community come together.

Here you’ll find a variety of voices, stories, and updates. Plus, it’s a place to connect and share opinions. You can also see how others think. Whether you’re here for fresh news, or thoughtful commentary, we’re proud to offer you fresh news every day. We also give thoughtful commentary. You will find a little inspiration here too.

So grab your favorite fall drink, explore the latest posts, and join the conversation. We’re thrilled you’re part of our growing community—and this October is only the beginning of what’s ahead!


By Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2025 

A July Truth: Heat Has a Way of Stripping Us Down to the Basics

By Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | 2025 Truth Endures©

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Today, the sun feels closer than usual. The heat presses in like a truth we’ve been avoiding—no politics, no noise, just sweat and breath and reality. July does that. It slows everything down, strips away distractions, and leaves us standing face-to-face with ourselves.

Across the country, people are pausing. People stop to wipe their brow. They take a drink of water or just breathe. There’s a strange unity in the stillness that heat brings. We complain, but the heat has a way of making us kinder, more patient. It reminds us we’re all in this together.

Today is a good day to check on a neighbor. Forgive something petty. Laugh with a stranger. Be the breeze someone needs.

Because on days like this, what matters most isn’t the temperature—it’s the connection.

The Wisdom of Old Trees: A Tale of Drought and Survival

By Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | 2025 Truth Endures©

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“Whispers from the Cottonwood”

Old Man Teller always said, “You don’t need a weather app when the trees are talkin’.” Most folks in town rolled their eyes. They dismissed the words as just another tale from a man with more years behind him than teeth. But Maggie believed him—always had.

Each morning, before the sun stretched across the Oklahoma horizon, Maggie walked down to the creek behind her farmhouse. The tall cottonwood trees stood like ancient guardians. She’d place her hand on the bark and close her eyes. She’d listen. She listened not just with her ears, but with her skin, her breath, her bones.

One autumn, the cottonwoods began shedding their leaves earlier than usual. Not the vibrant yellow fall kind, but pale and crisp, like they’d been drained of color. The crickets were fewer, and the frogs that usually croaked a lullaby at dusk had gone strangely silent. A stillness settled in the evenings—not peaceful, but hollow, like a breath being held too long.

Teller nodded solemnly when Maggie brought it up. “Means drought’s comin’. The earth’s tightening its belt.”

Sure enough, by December the ponds were cracked at the edges and even the cattle seemed quieter. Yet it wasn’t just the drought. Coyotes started howling at midday. Raccoons were foraging in broad daylight. Wild plum bushes flowered in January—six weeks early.

Nature, it seemed, was shouting.

In spring, the winds changed direction. Not from the south like usual, but from the east—harsh, dry, and persistent. That’s when Teller warned the town council: “There’s fire in that wind. Better get ready.” They didn’t listen. But when the wildfires crept dangerously close in May, only Maggie’s house stood untouched. She’d cleared brush months ago, just as the cottonwoods had told her to.

The next year, people started listening more. They noticed the ants building their hills higher before rain. The deer migrating sooner. Even the sky’s color at dusk began to carry meaning again.

Nature doesn’t send memos or push notifications. But it tells you everything—if you’re willing to sit still, pay attention, and speak its language.

And as Old Man Teller liked to remind them, with a wink, “The land was here long before you. Trust it to know what’s comin’.”

A Nostalgic Journey Through Summer Days


By Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | 2025 Truth Endures©

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The Days of Summer

There is something about the days of summer that never quite leaves you. It is a scent in the air or a golden hue in the light. It is also the sound of cicadas warming up for their evening concert. For a child, summer feels like forever. For an adult, it feels like something you once held in your hands. You didn’t realize it would slip away so quickly.

I remember one summer, I must have been around eleven. We had a tire swing tied to the big oak tree out back. That tree had roots that curled up out of the ground like the backs of old hands. When it rained, they made little rivulets in the dirt. My brothers and I would race leaves down those muddy streams as if they were ships headed for faraway lands.

The days were long and hot, but we didn’t care. Shoes were optional. Supper was whenever someone called out loud enough for us to hear. Most days, we’d roam until we were sunburned and starving, a little wiser than we’d been that morning. There was always a watermelon cooling in the horse trough. We tried to swat away flies as we spit seeds into the grass, but we failed.

Evenings were for catching fireflies in jars. They were the kind with holes poked in the lid. We did this by using a nail we’d hammered with a rock. We thought we were giving them air. We didn’t yet know the difference between freedom and capture.

I think back on those days now and realize that summer isn’t just a season. It’s a feeling. You carry it in your chest long after the sweat has dried. The tan has faded. The swing has stopped creaking in the breeze.

It’s a reminder to slow down. To let the day last a little longer. To chase the light, even if it’s only for a little while.