Finding Comfort in Chaos: A Breakfast to Remember

Everybody Love’s Somebody Sometime….

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By Benjamin Groff II GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026
October 29, 2026

Good morning, coffee drinkers.

One thing about a broken ankle: it gives you plenty of time to sit and think. Unfortunately, it does not guarantee you will have anything sensible to think about.

Three men smiling together at an outdoor gathering, with umbrellas in the background. — _{^{Left to Right: Ben, Steve and Sasha}} **_{^{Breakfast Christina’s Wild Berry Restaurant}}**.

I had pictured a quiet recovery. Drinks, Steve, Otis, me, and the occasional trip from one room to another that requires about as much preparation as a small expedition.

Then we had company.

A friend needed somewhere to stay while working through a rough patch at life. I’ll leave the particulars to the people involved. Around here, we were providing a place to sleep, someone to listen, and whatever wisdom two older men could offer from their recliners.

We have seen situations like this many times.

Usually on television. But we felt reasonably qualified.

Otis disagreed.

A cheerful small dog with white and tan fur sitting on a soft textured rug, looking up with its tongue out and wearing a collar. — _{^{OTIS K-9 Canis familiaris}}

Our Jack Russell Terrier believes visitors should stay approximately fifteen minutes. That gives them time to admire him, explain their business, and leave before becoming part of the household.

Our guest had exceeded his allotted time considerably.

Otis began monitoring him.

If he shifted in his chair, Otis noticed. If he crossed his legs, Otis had a comment. If he attempted to stand, the entire security department came to attention.

Our friend already had enough on his mind without having to negotiate permission to use the bathroom.

“Otis, leave him alone,” became one of the most frequently spoken sentences in the house.

I would have intervened more effectively, but I am currently operating with one good leg and a scooter. By the time I arrive at a disturbance, everybody has had time to develop a different account of what happened.

There is something especially frustrating about needing help when you are accustomed to doing things yourself. You spot something across the room and think, I’ll just get that.

Then you remember.

There is no “just” right now.

Getting dressed is a project. Getting out the door is a coordinated event. Something as ordinary as going to breakfast requires Steve to manage the dog, me to manage the scooter, and everyone to remain clear of whichever direction I’m pointed.

Still, after more than a month away from our favorite restaurant, I was ready.

I missed the familiar faces. I missed our usual breakfast. I missed going somewhere for a reason that did not involve somebody examining a part of me.

So we gathered ourselves up and headed out, leaving Otis at home to review his complaints.

I expected questions about my ankle. I was prepared to explain the fall, the pain, the surgery, and how quickly an ordinary day can turn into a story you will be telling for the rest of your life.

But the folks at the restaurant already knew most of that.

Facebook had handled the preliminary reporting.

There were warm welcomes and well wishes, and it felt good to be back. For a little while, I could sit at a restaurant table instead of in my recovery chair and enjoy something familiar.

Of course, our guest attracted some interest, too.

I had been missing in action for weeks, returned on a scooter, and somehow there was still newer news at the table.

That is the trouble with trying to make a comeback. Somebody else arrives with a developing story.

Between the coffee and breakfast, it occurred to me that all three of us needed the outing for different reasons. I needed a break from being home with my ankle. Steve needed a break from helping me do all the things I usually do myself. Our friend needed a little time when his troubles weren’t the only thing in the room.

We couldn’t settle everything over breakfast. But we could eat, talk, and give the worrying a rest.

Sometimes that is about what you have to offer someone. A chair. A meal. A place to stay while they figure out what comes next.

I’m learning to accept that kind of help myself. I appreciate it more than I probably manage to say, even when I get frustrated with how much of it I need.

Otis, meanwhile, would appreciate a firm checkout date.

And I still don’t know how the restaurant heard we had a houseguest.

That dog of ours is a blabbermouth.