The White Squirrels of Olney – What Brought My Grandmother Back

By Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026

July 3, 2026


They Were The Favorite Thing To See When She Returned To Olney.

-Olney White Squirrels – An Illinois Favorite

My grandmother, Florence Lula McElroy Groff, loved visiting Olney, Illinois.

She always said there was one thing she looked forward to most:

“The white squirrels.”

She carried photographs of them and showed them to me when I was a boy. She was certain that one day my father would take me there during the annual summer exchange of family visits.

The tradition began long before I was born.

The Squirrels she had seen, were what she talked of most.

The Groffs had roots stretching from Switzerland to Illinois and eventually to Oklahoma. My great-grandfather, Benjamin Harrison Groff, was born in Illinois in 1892, the son of Ulrich L. Groff, who had emigrated from Wengen, Bern, Switzerland. Ulrich and his brother Michael helped establish the family’s roots in Illinois before later generations, including Benjamin and his brother Otis, sought opportunity on the rich farmland of Oklahoma.

By 1930, Benjamin and Florence owned their farm west of Eakly, Oklahoma, near Cobb Creek. The census records describe a family of modest means but great determination: a farm, three children, and a life built through hard work.

Yet the most valuable thing they built was not the farm.

It was the tradition.

Each summer, relatives would travel hundreds of miles to remain connected. Groffs married McElroys. Dowtys married Groffs. McLemores became family. Neighbors became family too.

I remember Delmar Groff, Laura, Darlene, Walker Groff, and his sister Cleo coming from Illinois. By the time I was old enough to appreciate the visits, my grandparents no longer made the trip north. But the Illinois folks still came.

Every year.

I didn’t realize it then, but I was witnessing something extraordinary.

A family choosing, year after year, not to drift apart.

Today, as I prepare to spend time with the Folks from Oklahoma, I think about my grandmother and those white squirrels of Olney.

I think about the roads traveled.

I think about the stories carried.

Some day, I still wish to go see the Squirrels!

And I realize that perhaps the greatest inheritance our families passed down was not land, photographs, or old census records.

It was the understanding that distance is no excuse to stop loving one another.

That tradition, thankfully, is still alive

 


Groff Media ©2026 benandsteve.com Truth Endures

 

After the Flags Are Folded Away

By Benjamin Groff II  Groff Media © Truth Endures

July 1, 2026
[Information for portions of this report was found at LGBTQ NATION. Providing an undeniable and outstanding service to the LGBTQI+ Community!]

July is when the music has stopped, the flags are folded away, and we ask: Who carried us here?

That is where Gregory Marks comes in.            

“I’ve always been out,” Gregory Marks once said. “I didn’t have a dramatic reveal or a tortured confession. I was simply a fat queer kid who knew exactly who he was.”                

June has ended.

The parades have passed.

The rainbow flags that fluttered in storefront windows and along city streets are being folded and stored away until next year.

And that is exactly why I wanted to write about Gregory Marks.

Because some people do their greatest work when the crowds have gone home.

Gregory Marks spent decades singing with and alongside members of the LGBTQ community, helping people endure grief that many outside the community never witnessed. He was there when AIDS was stealing friends, lovers, brothers, and sons. He was there when funerals came too often and hope seemed in short supply. Music became his ministry. His voice became a refuge.

He was part of a generation that understood something profound:

Sometimes people cannot speak their grief.

But they can sing it.

The LGBTQ movement has always had its celebrated leaders. We know the names of activists who marched, politicians who legislated, and pioneers who challenged unjust laws.

But there are also people like Gregory Marks.

The caretakers.

The listeners.

The singers.

The ones who sat beside hospital beds.

The ones who attended memorials when families would not.

The ones who stood shoulder to shoulder with a hurting community and quietly said:

“You are not alone.”

The history of LGBTQ choirs and musical organizations is deeply intertwined with survival. Groups such as the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus became places where people could grieve together, celebrate together, and declare openly who they were in a world that often wished they would disappear. Music became protest. Music became healing. Music became hope.

That is Gregory Marks’ legacy.

Not merely the songs he sang.

But the people he helped carry through unbearable moments.

I think there is a lesson in that.

Pride Month is important.

The rainbow flag matters.

Celebration matters.

But perhaps what matters most is what happens on July 1st.

When the banners come down.

When the headlines move on.

When ordinary people continue doing extraordinary things for one another.

That is where love proves itself.

Not in the applause.

Not in the parade.

But in the quiet decision to stand beside another person and help them carry what feels too heavy to bear.

Gregory Marks did that.

And because he did, his song continues.

Long after the music ends.


Groff Media ©2026 benandsteve.com Truth Endures

When a Rainbow Means Safety: Somewhere Beyond the Hatred Lies Hope

By Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026

June 30, 2026


Why Pride Month, the rainbow flag, and the simple act of being seen still matter.

https://images.openai.com/static-rsc-4/XFKTzEzZ1bip32itk4W5XFIP_PwAjw-qhLj2EnqapCatZVEZvTsULp_KdEsO3o0cAp6X8kuwg0a3OFf106ABW3f30wfZZpwTQA23DB7_ID-kp12pmd0ebig7rf8FtcWpzSP2wqXTcdQHE_wbcoEmu1X-q4Ku0TuCgfayxRBwM4CbJOG9LQpp-E5neza2R5yO?purpose=fullsizehttps://images.openai.com/static-rsc-4/rvjutFF4tahsHgozJ2Ekh-tBjVk_AmOLjqtjlYfiPMqKqgDHqP-iaUrVePg_wm0y8-TZItoJPRMRXmWX0Y8ZwTpNxwk9PEqZKVVuc3gf1YVr765lKRqYEkgxWluZ_Ja9SBrJFxvDAnjNEiwvqO1hj0WNv2jIbd_xZuBNlWXl-RrOHYGpKR0sOeOxMdxpdzp2?purpose=fullsizehttps://images.openai.com/static-rsc-4/_DzkDyZNXVamFofmDjXifthRCkww1nAD5zhKmF67ABDS-o5D_vr__XJ32EULwhN3w8FTjZPK1sgnOQ5Rz8KyHJxl0MkwmmN56l9nEQCw4tD2-PHcj7dWXGFocMfDbMTw0idYynN3CLl5pwNwDBK1riS9n_hv5v62aF6frYKI2S4O-EBV5zOkLns8k0UmO2vG?purpose=fullsize

There are moments when people ask a sincere question:

Why is there a Pride Month? Why the rainbow flag? Why all of the celebration?

For many people, the answer is simple.

Because there are still nights when someone leaves a restaurant holding the hand of the person they love and wonders if they will make it home safely.

Recently in the small city of Caldwell, a gay couple, Juan Olvera and Eric Reed, say they were enjoying dinner at a local restaurant when they became the target of homophobic slurs from a group of men. The couple left, hoping to avoid confrontation. Instead, they say they were followed, chased through a parking lot and onto nearby railroad tracks, and assaulted. One man suffered a black eye, cuts, and bruises. The other required stitches after being struck in the face. Police arrested one suspect and filed a misdemeanor battery charge. Idaho law does not currently include sexual orientation among its hate crime protections.

The physical wounds will heal.

The fear takes longer.

Juan Olvera told reporters:

“I literally thought I was going to die.”

Think about that sentence.

Not in a war.

Not while committing a crime.

Not while threatening anyone.

But simply because he was gay.

And that is why Pride exists.


The rainbow flag is not a declaration of superiority.

It is not a political party.

It is not an attack on anyone else’s beliefs.

It is a signal.

It says:

  • I am here.
  • I have survived.
  • I should not have to hide.
  • I deserve to live openly and safely.

For some people, Pride is a parade.

For others, it is a quiet acknowledgment that they made it through years of fear, rejection, ridicule, or violence.

Many older LGBTQ Americans remember when they could lose jobs for being gay.

They remember being denied housing.

They remember police raids on bars.

They remember the terror of the AIDS epidemic.

And yes, they remember the beatings.

The rainbow became a symbol because symbols matter.

Flags matter.

They tell stories.

The American flag tells the story of a nation striving toward liberty.

The rainbow flag tells the story of people striving toward dignity.

Neither promises perfection.

Both represent hope.


This story from Idaho is not offered to inflame anger or divide people further.

It is offered as a reminder.

Behind every Pride flag is a person.

Behind every Pride Month celebration is someone who once wondered whether they would be accepted by their family, their church, their community—or even survive.

Most people, regardless of politics, agree on one thing:

No one should fear violence because of who they are.

No one should be beaten for holding the hand of the person they love.

No one should have to wonder whether tomorrow will bring acceptance or hatred.

That is not a gay issue.

That is a human issue.

And until stories like this become relics of the past rather than headlines of the present, there will continue to be Pride Month.

There will continue to be rainbow flags.

There will continue to be people saying:

We are here. We are your neighbors. We are your family. And we hope one day these reminders are no longer necessary.


Benjamin Groff II
Groff Media © Truth Endures

 

The Gay Mafia: Ned’s Unlikely Protectors | A Surprising Twist of Fate

By Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026 

Reposted from a earlier publication on Groff Media Truth Endures 2026©

June 26, 2026

The Unsung Headliner

Characters:

  • Ned: A shy and timid typesetter at the Daily Weeds newspaper, who resembles Brad Pitt on a bad day. Ned is modest and unaware of his value and attractiveness.
  • The Cute Bartender (Alex): A charismatic and charming bartender at Lucky C who falls for Ned over their shared love of Shirley Temples.
  • The Daily Weeds Higher-Ups: The newspaper’s executives who take credit for Ned’s brilliant headlines.
  • Rival Newspaper Competitors: A scheming group aiming to kidnap and kill Ned to stop the Daily Weeds’ success.
  • The Gay Mafia: A secretive, protective group willing to go to great lengths to defend Ned, although he is unaware of their existence.

Plot:

Ned lived a quiet life, hidden in the shadows of the Daily Weeds’ newsroom. His days were spent crafting perfect headlines, a talent that brought his employer acclaim and success. Despite his crucial role, Ned remained unnoticed, timidly working at his typesetting desk. His self-esteem was low; he never considered himself attractive, even though he had a rugged charm that could be likened to Brad Pitt on an off day.

Ned’s life took an unexpected turn one evening when he narrowly escaped being hit by a runaway city bus. Disoriented and seeking solace, he stumbled into a bar he had never noticed—Lucky C. With its welcoming atmosphere and vibrant clientele, the bar was a stark contrast to Ned’s usually solitary existence.

At the bar, he ordered the only alcoholic drink he knew—a Shirley Temple. Alex, the cute bartender, was immediately charmed. Alex loved making Shirley Temples, a drink rarely requested by patrons. Their shared moment over this simple drink sparked a connection, and for the first time, Ned felt seen and appreciated.

As Ned began to frequent Lucky C, he started coming out of his shell. The lively environment and supportive community at the bar brought out a side of him he never knew existed. His newfound confidence began to reflect in his work, leading to even more captivating headlines that left the Daily Weeds’ competitors scrambling.

Unbeknownst to Ned, the rival newspaper had been closely monitoring the Daily Weeds’ success. Frustrated by their inability to keep up, they devised a sinister plan to kidnap and eliminate the source of their competition’s success—Ned. 

They would wait until he left the Daily Weeds back office and throw a hood over his head. Then, two thugs would throw Ned into a waiting van and speed him to the outside of town near a seedy pond where he would be shot, still wearing the hood and a weight tied around his neck, and thrown into a boat. One of the thugs would take a boat and shove it away from the shore, and when it got near the center of the pond, the thugs would fill it with bullet holes and make it sink, with Ned inside, weighed down. Never to be found.

However, the rival newspaper and their hired mobsters were unaware of a secret force. The Gay Mafia, a clandestine group operating within the city, had liked Ned. They admired his quiet brilliance and were determined to protect him at all costs. They had been listening through their glitter correspondences. The glitter correspondences were a network of highly sensitive individuals who could pick up on people’s intuitions from across the room. They had been picking up vibes from the thugs at a local coffee shop for over a week. It is what caused the Gay Mafia to concentrate their attention on Ned. There was so much vibing there was almost concern they would have to call in a team from Philly to assist with the operation. With well-laid plans and assistance from the Gay Men’s Choir, a plan got hatched to pull off operation “SAVE NED” at 1700 Hours sharp! The driver, who made up the only civilian of the Gay Mafia, yelled to the rest of the non-mafia members that it was 5 PM, you guys. The rest of the Gay Mafia had belonged to the same Troop in the Middle East when serving the Country and understood military time. 

The rival newspaper’s plot set off a chain of events culminating in a dramatic confrontation. As the thugs moved in on Ned, the Gay Mafia sprang into action. A chaotic collision of forces ensued—a battle that turned the usually quiet city streets into a more vibrant and exhilarating scene than any Pride Parade.

There were unusually high pitches of the singing of Hallelujah coming from the alleyway of the Daily Weeds Office area and then sudden flumes of smoke and glitter, followed by the pomp and circumstance of a Gay Mens Chorus of Lilly of The Valley. The evil thugs were tied up and left in a neat pile for the local police to find—all courtesy of the Gay Mafia. 

Amid the chaos, Ned remained blissfully unaware of the true extent of his importance or the danger he was in. All he knew was that for the first time in his life, people were surrounding him who valued him, both for his talent and who he was. The experience saved his life and transformed it, making Ned realize his worth and the power of community. As he left the Daily Weed, he shut and locked the door and walked to the Lucky C, where he sat on a bar stool and asked Alex for a Shirley Temple. 

Today ––– The Daily Weeds continued to thrive, thanks to Ned’s unmatched headlines. And Ned, no longer the unsung hero, became a celebrated figure in both the newsroom and the vibrant world of Lucky C. His story was a testament to life’s unexpected turns and the hidden strength within us all, yet to be discovered.


By Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2024 

Reposted from a earlier publication on Groff Media Truth Endures 2026©

The Cost of Exclusion: What Happens When Communities Are Pushed Too Far (Repeated Story With Today’s Lense – After D.C. Shooting!)

This Story Originally Appeared On November 1st, 2025. On November 26th a shooting resulted in Washington D.C. It looks as if it resulted from pressure placed on an individual. A person identified from a sect or community. You can read the story connected to that event here. then consider the contents of this story and decide for yourself. It is not difficult to have predicted. More will come.

10–16 minutes

In every generation, the United States stands at a crossroads of its own making. From the outside, our country can look unstoppable. From the inside, we often feel the push and pull of competing values. These include hopes and fears. Beneath the headlines and politics are real people—neighbors, families, workers—trying to live meaningful lives. When pressure builds in a society, it rarely announces itself with fanfare. Instead, it creeps in quietly, showing up as worry, disconnection, or a sense that something familiar is shifting. This story isn’t about sensational headlines but about those quiet pressures—economic, social, and cultural—that can change a nation’s future.

Deportation, Prejudice, and the Risk of History Repeating

When governments treat specific communities as disposable, they create wounds. These often fester into something more dangerous. Today in the United States, many Hispanic families live under the shadow of deportation. They are sometimes sent to countries that are not their place of origin. Worse still, many are denied fair hearings or meaningful access to justice before being removed.

This pattern, though uniquely American in its details, has historical echoes elsewhere.

Lessons from Israel and Its Neighbors

Globally, people are voicing similar worries. Inflation, poverty, unemployment, and corruption rank highest worldwide. Local details differ, yet the underlying pressures on ordinary families are strikingly alike from one country to another.

In the Middle East, decades of restrictive policies have shaped the relationship between Israel and its neighbors. Palestinians have endured travel restrictions, settlement expansion, home demolitions, and barriers to full participation in civic life. While not every individual responds with violence, these systemic grievances have fueled a climate where radical groups gain traction. Street shootings, bombings, and attacks on innocent civilians are, in part, the tragic outcome of exclusion and marginalization.

  • When justice is denied, resentment grows. History shows us what happens when exclusion takes root. Will the U.S. repeat Israel’s mistakes?

The lesson is not that oppression always leads to terrorism. Yet, when large communities feel silenced, denied justice, or stripped of dignity, it becomes easier for extremism to take root.

The American Parallel

For many Hispanic communities in the U.S., there is growing concern that the same cycle begins here. Families who have lived in this country for years are uprooted without warning. Children who know no other homeland are deported to countries where they have no ties. Legal safeguards that should guarantee fairness are often bypassed through expedited removal or administrative shortcuts.

  • Deportation without dignity doesn’t just break families—it risks breaking society. Lessons from abroad show what happens when whole communities are silenced.

The danger is not only humanitarian—it is practical. Alienation breeds resentment. Resentment, left unchecked, can lead to anger that is so strong it erupts in harmful ways. If citizens and residents consistently feel betrayed by the very government meant to protect them, feelings of betrayal grow. Over time, these feelings lead to instability akin to that seen in other parts of the world.

A Cautionary Reflection

The United States faces a choice. It can double down on policies that treat Hispanic people as outsiders. Alternatively, it can recognize that fairness, dignity, and due process are not luxuries—they are stabilizers. By ensuring justice and compassion, the U.S. can protect both its people and its principles.

History reminds us that exclusion never produces lasting peace. Inclusion does. If America forgets this, it risks repeating a painful lesson already written across borders far from its own.

  • Exclusion never creates peace. Inclusion does. The United States must choose which future it wants.

As this report was being prepared on September 10, 2025. Conservative activist Charlie Kirk was fatally shot during a speaking event at Utah Valley University in Orem, Utah. He was addressing an audience as part of his “American Comeback Tour.” When a gunman, described as wearing tactical gear, opened fire from a nearby building. The event was not just violent in its outcome. It’s now being discussed widely as an example of how political tensions, rising polarization. Public rhetoric can set the stage for tragedy. AP News+3Reuters+3People.com+3

This shooting stands as a stark reminder of what happens when communities feel threatened, unheard, or unfairly treated. When specific policies—like deportations without fair hearings, rhetoric that pits “us vs. them,” or laws that strip rights from people—are merged with public disdain, alienation can grow. As with Kirk’s death, violence doesn’t happen in a vacuum. It is often preceded by months or years of escalating division, distrust, and dehumanizing language toward some group.

If similar pressures continue—where people feel they are being denied justice. Or they will be forced into exile, or silenced—the risk is not only that isolated individuals will lash out. More of these attacks will spill into public spaces, become more common, and target more people. Charlie Kirk’s shooting is tragic and shocking. Still it also foreshadows a pattern we’ve seen before elsewhere: oppression + exclusion + inflammatory rhetoric = violence.

THE QUESTION NOW FACING THE UNITED STATES

The U.S. be trailing a path? Is government policy and public rhetoric pushing some communities to a breaking point? Exclusion and injustice be more than grievances, becoming catalysts for violence? 

Israel offers a stark example. It shows what can happen when a nation attempts to dominate or control another people or region. Despite decades of military action, surveillance, imprisonment, and harsh policies, the country faces ongoing terrorist attacks. These actions occur within its own borders. History shows that no matter the tactics, attempts to subjugate or marginalize an entire population often breed resentment. Such approaches lead to cycles of violence rather than lasting security.

Recent polling reveals Americans’ top worries focus on daily life basics. These include the economy, healthcare costs, inflation, and Social Security. Economic anxiety has become the leading stress point—and understanding it is key to shaping effective public policy.

In the United States, millions of people belong to the LGBTQI community—transgender, gay, intersex, and beyond. If laws or court rulings increasingly target these groups with discriminatory restrictions or hardships, the effect won’t just be legal. It will erode their existing rights and impact them deeply on a human level. People who feel cornered, threatened, or stripped of dignity often turn to protest, activism, and self-defense. Families, friends, and allies of LGBTQI individuals will stand with them. History shows that when marginalized communities are pushed too far, their collective response grows stronger. They become more determined, whether through the courts, the ballot box, or public action.

  •  There are case studies in why inclusion and fairness matter. Disenfranchisement can occur across many lines. These include ethnicity, religion, gender, disability, or economic status. Prevention starts with recognizing early warning signs. It involves pushing for fairness and empathy. Other groups and individuals will be targeted in this sweeping of Americans’ rights.

1. Immigrant and Refugee Communities Beyond Latin America

People from African nations, the Middle East, or Asia sometimes experience parallel challenges. They face deportation, limited due process, and suspicion tied to their nationality or religion. Policies that reduce refugee admissions, delay asylum processing, or tighten visa rules disproportionately affect them.

2. Religious Minorities

Muslims, Sikhs, Jews, and other smaller faith groups have seen spikes in harassment or targeted legislation. Surveillance, mosque or temple zoning battles, and hate crimes all increase when public rhetoric frames these groups as”others.”

3. Indigenous Peoples

Tribal communities continue to face legal battles over land, water, and sovereignty. Changes to federal protections or environmental rules can undermine their rights. This fuels deep distrust and potential standoffs (for example, Standing Rock and other pipeline protests).

4. People With Disabilities

Budget cuts or shifts in healthcare, accessibility regulations, or education funding can affect people with physical or cognitive disabilities. Without legal protections and enforcement, they risk losing access to accommodations and services they depend on.

5. Women and Reproductive Rights

If policies continue restricting reproductive healthcare and bodily autonomy, many women feel increasingly alienated. This is especially true for those in rural and low-income areas. Such feelings lead to organized protest. It also heightens tensions.

6. Workers in Precarious or Gig Jobs

With unions weakened and worker protections often rolled back, low-wage and gig-economy workers are also vulnerable to systemic neglect. Economic insecurity can create fertile ground for unrest, especially if merged with racial or immigration-related grievances.

On a hot summer’s day, if you stir any of these pots, something unhappy will happen. Similarly, if you keep someone locked out on a cold winter’s day, the outcome will be negative. It used to be the explosive reaction we referred to as Cabin-Fever when someone no longer can take the pressure. When so many groups are pushed to the point of not being capable to handle it. What happens? America already has more firearms than any country in the world. It shouldn’t take much research to realize that becoming Palestine-Israel would be easier than ever. It would also be more violent than people thought.

  • Exclusion never creates peace. Inclusion does. America must choose which future it wants.

There are Americans who are also to be considered part of the LGBTQI community. If laws or Supreme Court rulings turn against the transgender, Gay members, or Intersex community, these laws can cause hardships. Further restrictions can come into their lives. At some point, they and their families, friends, and supporters are going to find ways to defend themselves. 

Yes — beyond the Hispanic and LGBTQI communities already discussed, there are several other groups. Experts and advocates often recognize these groups as vulnerable. These groups are often affected by shifts in policy, public sentiment, or legal rulings. Here’s a quick overview:

How Many Transgender People Have Been Mass Shooters?

This chart shows just how rare transgender or nonbinary mass shooters are in the U.S.—less than 1% of cases compared to an overwhelming majority by cisgender men. It’s a clear reminder that public narratives blaming LGBTQ+ people for mass violence are unsupported by facts.

How many trans shooters are there in real life?

Officially, the short answer: very, very few. Credible databases don’t systematically record gender identity. Still, the best available analyses show well under 1% of U.S. mass shooters have identified as transgender or nonbinary—i.e., only a handful of cases across many decadesSocial Sciences and Humanities College+1

A few notes for context:

  • The Violence Project’s long-running database (public mass shootings, 4+ killed) shows hundreds of incidents since 1966. Researchers and fact-checks confirm that transgender perpetrators account for less than 1% of cases. This is in the low single digits in total. The Violence Project+1
  • News reporting that tries to tally specific incidents similarly finds just a few cases. It also cautions that many official datasets code by sex, not gender identity, which limits precision. Newsweek
  • Independent fact-checks conclude that claims of a “rise” in transgender mass shooters are unsupported. The vast majority of mass shooters are cisgender men. Reuters

Bottom line: Exact counts are hard to pin down because of data limitations. The evidence consistently shows that transgender people make up a vanishingly small share of U.S. mass shooters.

“Fewer than ten transgender athletes out of 510,000 NCAA players.

Yet, they’re at the center of a multi-million-dollar political storm.”

This makes sense—transgender people represent a very small part of the population, and their visibility often makes them targets. Out of more than 510,000 NCAA college athletes nationwide, it’s estimated that fewer than ten are openly transgender. Historically, families—including our grandparents and their grandparents—have coexisted with transgender individuals without controversy. Only in recent years have political attacks escalated, turning a once-private aspect of life into a public battleground. These attacks have generated hundreds of millions of dollars. Groups and politicians use transgender people as a wedge issue. They target individuals who are simply trying to live their lives.

What We Know (or Think We Know)

  • According to the Williams Institute at UCLA, about 300,000 youth aged 13–17 recognize as transgender in the U.S. Williams Institute
  • Of those, some studies suggest ~40.7% of transgender high school students play on at least one sports team. Applying that to the population estimate gives around 120,000+ transgender high school student-athletes Williams Institute
  • Nonetheless, when it comes to more specific breakdowns (e.g. how many play in women’s teams, or how many are in college/pro sports), the numbers are much smaller. For example, GLAAD reports that among ~510,000 NCAA college athletes, there are fewer than 10 known transgender athletes GLAAD

Key Takeaways & Limitations

  • Small in relative terms: Tens of thousands of transgender youth join in high school sports. Still, they are still a very tiny fraction of all athletes.
  • Very few at higher levels: At the college or professional levels, the known, openly transgender athletes are very rare (under 10 in the NCAA among all those athletes, per recent reports) GLAAD+1
  • Data gaps: Many sports associations don’t track gender identity carefully. Privacy concerns, inconsistent reporting, and changing eligibility rules make precise numbers hard to nail down.

Exclusion never creates peace. Inclusion does. The United States must choose which future it wants.

Yet even in times of strain, The United States of America greatest strength has always been its capacity to self-correct. Communities do not simply absorb pressure—they also adapt, innovate, and rise to meet challenges. We have the chance now to choose empathy over division, solutions over rhetoric, and inclusion over exclusion. If we remember that the country’s heart beats strongest when its people are treated with fairness and dignity. Then the same forces that threaten to divide us can also become the sparks that unite us. This is not just a warning—it’s an invitation to hope.

This content was originally intended to be posted on September 11, 2025. Due to unfolding events at that time, its publication was postponed until November 1, 2025. It is reposted on June 26, 2026 due to the current decisions of the United States Supreme Court. The research began weeks before events on September 10, 2025 in Utah. If additional events have occurred since then, this report reflects the level of concern. It highlights the growing sense of unease emerging across the United States.


About the Author:

Benjamin Groff is a former police officer and radio news anchor. He has hosted programs for CNN and ABC News affiliates in Colorado and Wyoming. His career in law enforcement began in 1980 and lasted more than two decades. This gave him firsthand insight into the criminal mind and public safety. Moreover, it provided him with an understanding of the human stories that often go untold. His writing draws on these experiences, blending street-level truth with a journalist’s eye for the bigger picture.

By Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2025 

 

Coming Out After Basic Training: John’s Journey to Authenticity

A Story By Benjamin H Groff© 
Groff Media Copyright 2024©
Reposted June 25, 2026 Truth Endures©

Returning home from basic training, John returned to a place he no longer knew. It was the same one he had left before going ‘to basic,’ but he was different. Between leaving and coming back, John had changed. Or had he accepted something about himself? He didn’t know.

From his perspective, his life was one in which he would have to live in double time: in his time for himself and when he was with his family in a perspective that fit their permissions. He had dated a girl before he left but had broken up with her before he returned. By letter. A ‘Dear Jane’ type of letter, letting her know she could date other guys and that he didn’t expect her to wait for him.

John wrote he would be in no condition as a datable companion if and when he returned. He included a few other words about how training had changed him, getting him ready for the fight, hoping it would get the message across and cause her to continue her life. He had been ranked and assigned to maintenance crews stateside for two years, which was the reality of his assignment.

When John arrived back in his hometown, he stepped off the bus, duffel bag slung over his shoulder, and the familiar streets of his hometown unfolded before him. It was a hot summer afternoon, and the cicadas droned loudly, filling the heavy air with their constant hum. It should have felt like home, but it didn’t. Everything seemed smaller, almost claustrophobic. The neat houses, the familiar storefronts, even the people who waved at him with a mix of pride and curiosity—none of it felt right.

He adjusted the strap on his shoulder and started walking, the soles of his boots crunching on the gravel. Memories of his time in basic training flooded his mind. The relentless drills, the camaraderie with his fellow soldiers, and the quiet introspection late at night had been a time of transformation, of pushing his limits and discovering parts of himself he had never confronted.

One of those parts was realizing he couldn’t keep living a lie. He’d broken up with Emily in a letter, the words blunt and final. He’d told her that basic training had changed him, but he hadn’t told her how. He hadn’t told her the real reason was that he couldn’t keep pretending to be someone he wasn’t. He’d signed the letter with a shaky hand, hoping she’d understand and move on.

Standing on his childhood street, John felt the weight of his double life pressing down on him. He had come to terms with his identity, but he knew that acceptance came with a price. His family had certain expectations and beliefs, and he didn’t fit into their neat, tidy picture.
The contrast between his inner truth and their external expectations was stark, and it weighed heavily on him.

As he approached his house, he saw his mother standing on the porch, her face lighting up as she saw him. She hurried down the steps, arms outstretched, and he found himself enveloped in her warm embrace.

“Oh, it’s so good to have you home!”

she exclaimed, looking back at him.

“You’ve grown, and you look so strong!”

He forced a smile, nodding.

“It’s good to be home, Mom.”

Inside, the house smelled freshly baked bread and flowers from the garden. His father was in his usual chair, reading the newspaper. When he saw his son, he stood and nodded in approval.

“Welcome back, son,”

The dad said gruffly.

“You did us proud.”

“Thanks, Dad,”

John replied, ignoring the tight knot in his stomach.

The next few days went by in a blur of family gatherings and catching up with old friends. Everyone wanted to hear about his experiences, basic training, and future in the maintenance crew. John told them what they wanted to hear, leaving out the parts that didn’t fit into their narrative.

One evening, he found himself alone in his room, which felt more like a museum of his past than a place of comfort. He sat on the edge of the bed, looking at the photos on the wall and the trophies on the shelf. It all felt so distant, so disconnected from who he had become.

He pulled out his phone and stared at Emily’s number. He had rehearsed what he wanted to say a hundred times, but now that the moment was here, he felt paralyzed.

Finally, he typed out a message:

“Hey Emily, I’m back in town. Would you like to meet up sometime? There’s something I need to talk to you about.”

He hit send before he could second-guess himself, and the response came quickly.

“Sure, I’d like that. When and where?”

They agreed to meet at the local coffee shop they used to go to in high school. As John walked there, he felt a mixture of dread and relief. He knew this conversation was necessary, but he also feared the consequences.

Emily was already there when he arrived, sitting at a corner table. She looked up and smiled when she saw him, but there was a hint of uncertainty in her eyes.

“Hi,” she said as he sat down. “It’s good to see you.”
“You too,” he replied, taking a deep breath. “Emily, I need to tell you something, and it’s not easy for me.”

She looked at him, her expression softening.


“Whatever it is, you can tell me.”


He looked down at his hands, then back up at her.

“I broke up with you because I couldn’t keep lying. And I couldn’t keep lying to you. I’m gay, Emily. That’s why I ended things. I didn’t want to hurt you, but I couldn’t keep pretending.”

There was a long silence, and he felt his heart pounding. Finally, Emily reached across the table and took his hand.

“Thank you for telling me,” she said quietly.
“I wish you had told me sooner, but I understand. I’m glad you’re being true to yourself.”

As they parted ways, John felt a sense of relief wash over him. The weight of his secret had been lifted, and he felt lighter, as if their visit had released a burden from his shoulders. He was grateful for Emily’s understanding and acceptance, and he felt a renewed sense of freedom and authenticity.

Returning home, John knew there were still challenges ahead—his family, community, and the double life he would have to navigate. But he also knew that he had taken the first step towards living authentically. For the first time in a long time, he felt a glimmer of hope.


By Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026

Warning Signs: What Recent Shootings Reveal About America’s Pressures

4–6 minutes
By Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026

June 24, 2026

Reposted from an earlier date

When Politics Turns Deadly: What Recent Shootings Reveals About America’s Pressures

Political Violence in the U.S.: A Historical Lens Political Pressure Pots That Are Exploding

On September 10, 2025, conservative activist Charlie Kirk was fatally shot while speaking at Utah Valley University. The attack shocked audiences nationwide and revived a painful question: Is political violence becoming more common in the United States? While the details of this case continue to unfold, history offers context. The Kirk shooting is tragic, but it’s not unprecedented—political assassinations and attacks have occurred before. Understanding that history can help us prevent future violence.

Throughout U.S. history, public figures have been targeted for their beliefs, activism, or positions of power. These events—though rare—often show deep social, political, or cultural tensions. Below is a timeline of key moments, followed by how they compare to today.

Year / Victim / Role / Context / Motive

On April 14, 1865, Abraham Lincoln, the U.S. President, was assassinated by John Wilkes Booth, a Confederate sympathizer.

1901 William McKinley, U.S. President, was killed by anarchist Leon Czolgosz.

1935 Huey Long, U.S. Senator / LA Governor, was shot by Carl Weiss amid political turmoil in Louisiana.

1963 Medgar Evers, a Civil Rights Activist, was shot outside his home for his activism in Mississippi.

In 1963, President John F. Kennedy was assassinated while riding in a motorcade in Dallas, Texas. Lee Harvey Oswald was arrested for the crime. He was shot and killed by Jack Ruby before standing trial. The official record names Oswald as the lone gunman. The motive has remained an issue of widespread debate and speculation for decades.

1965 Malcolm X, a Civil Rights Leader, was killed during a public speech in Harlem.

1968 Robert F. Kennedy, the Presidential Candidate, was shot after a campaign rally in Los Angeles.

On April 4, 1968, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.—American Baptist minister, civil rights leader, and Nobel Peace Prize laureate—was assassinated. He was standing on the balcony of the Lorraine Motel in Memphis, Tennessee when it happened. James Earl Ray, an escaped convict, was arrested for the murder two months later and later pleaded guilty. Ray claimed he was part of a larger conspiracy. He later tried to recant his confession. Nonetheless, the official record names him as the assassin. The motive remains the topic of debate. King led the civil rights movement. He opposed systemic racism. These actions made him a frequent target of threats and hostility.

1969–70s Various bombings & shootings Political & protest-related Weather Underground, far-right and far-left extremist groups.

2011 Gabrielle Giffords (survived), U.S. Representative, was shot at a constituent event in Arizona; six others were killed.

High profile, targeted instances of political violence

Charlie Kirk shooting*

Killed

Orem, Utah

Kirk was shot and killed while speaking at an event on the campus of Utah Valley University. Kirk was a well-known conservative activist who founded Turning Point USA.

Sept. 2025

*Officials have not confirmed that the shooting was politically motivated.

*Officials have not confirmed that the shooting was politically motivated.

Minnesota lawmaker shootings

2 killed, 2 injured

Minneapolis, Minnesota

A gunman targeted several Minnesota election officials. He killed Minnesota House of Representatives member Melissa Hortman and her husband Mark Hortman in their home. State Sen. John Hoffman and his wife Yvette Hoffman were shot and injured in their home.

June 2025

Minnesota lawmaker shootings

Two killed, two injured

Minneapolis, Minnesota

A gunman targeted several Minnesota election officials. He killed Minnesota House of Representatives member Melissa Hortman and her husband Mark Hortman in their home. State Senator John Hoffman and his wife Yvette Hoffman were shot and injured in their home.

June 2025

Minnesota lawmaker shootings

Two killed, two injured

Minneapolis, Minnesota

A gunman targeted several Minnesota election officials. He killed Minnesota House of Representatives member Melissa Hortman and her husband Mark Hortman in their home. State Senator John Hoffman and his wife Yvette Hoffman were shot and injured in their home.

June 2025

Pennsylvania Gov. Josh Shapiro’s home arson

No injuries

Harrisburg, Pennsylvania

The Pennsylvania Governor’s Residence was set on fire while Shapiro and his family slept inside.

April 2025

Pennsylvania Gov. Josh Shapiro’s home arson

No injuries

Harrisburg, Pennsylvania

The Pennsylvania Governor’s Residence was set on fire while Shapiro and his family slept inside.

2025 Charlie Kirk, Conservative Activist, was shot while speaking at Utah Valley University; investigation ongoing.

Timeline of Notable Political Murders And Attacks In The U.S. (1865-2025)
  • Public Rhetoric Matters: In nearly every case, rhetoric and polarization preceded the violence.
  • Violence Rarely Comes From Nowhere: These events are almost always linked to broader grievances, social tensions, or extremist ideologies.
  • Modern Amplifiers: Today’s social media, 24/7 news, and intense partisanship can supercharge grievances faster than in past eras.

The Kirk shooting reflects how quickly divisions can escalate. This happens when marginalized or politically active groups feel threatened. It also occurs when public discourse frames opponents as existential enemies. Left unchecked, the result can spill over from online posts and protests into public spaces and deadly attacks.

History shows that violence rarely ends the debate—it deepens it. The antidote is not silence but inclusion, dialogue, and guardrails on how we treat one another, even when we disagree.

The U.S. is not doomed to repeat its worst moments, but it does need to recognize them. Political violence grows where alienation and fear fester. The Charlie Kirk tragedy, like earlier assassinations, should not only shock but also instruct. By confronting polarization and reinforcing democratic norms, communities can prevent these cycles from repeating.


About the Author:

Benjamin Groff is a former police officer and radio news anchor. He has hosted programs for CNN and ABC News affiliates in Colorado and Wyoming. His career in law enforcement began in 1980 and lasted more than two decades. This gave him firsthand insight into the criminal mind and public safety. Moreover, it provided him with an understanding of the human stories that often go untold. His writing draws on these experiences, blending street-level truth with a journalist’s eye for the bigger picture.


By Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2025 

The Ballot Scanner and the Bigger Question – What Happened To It After It Was Snatched?

Groff Media ©2026 benandsteve.com Truth Endures

June 13, 2026

Trust Is Hard to Build and Easy to Lose

Election equipment is not supposed to become the story.

AI-generated illustrative image (synthography). Individuals, equipment, vehicles, and activities shown are artistic representations intended to accompany reporting on the event and do not depict actual footage, photographs, or verified scenes from the incident.

The votes are supposed to be the story.      

The candidates are supposed to be the story.

The voters are supposed to be the story.

Yet in Maricopa County this week, attention turned to a ballot scanner and the questions surrounding its movement during an election process.

According to reports, county officials are investigating an incident involving a pre-tabulation ballot scanner that was allegedly removed from an election facility, transported to another location, and later returned. County officials have described security footage showing the movement of the equipment, while representatives of the Recorder’s Office argue their employees were acting within their responsibilities. Investigations and court actions are now underway to determine what occurred and whether any policies were violated.

The facts will ultimately be sorted out by investigators and the courts.

But there is a larger issue worth discussing.

Public confidence.

In modern America, elections are no longer judged solely by whether they are conducted properly. They are judged by whether voters believe they were conducted properly.

That may not seem fair to election officials, but it is reality.

The public expects election equipment to remain secure.

The public expects ballots to remain secure.

The public expects clear procedures, documented chains of custody, and transparent explanations when questions arise.

Even actions that may ultimately prove harmless can create suspicion when voters do not fully understand what occurred.

Trust works much the same way.

It takes years to build and only moments to damage.

Maricopa County has spent years at the center of election controversies, investigations, audits, lawsuits, accusations, and political disagreements. Whether justified or not, many voters already approach election news with heightened concern.

That is why every election official, every supervisor, every recorder, and every election worker carries a special responsibility.

Not only must elections be secure.

They must appear secure.

Not only must procedures be followed.

The public must be able to see that procedures are being followed.

Americans do not all agree on politics.

They never have.

But they should be able to agree on one thing:

Every eligible voter deserves confidence that their ballot is handled properly from beginning to end.

The investigation will eventually determine what happened with the scanner.

The larger challenge may be restoring something even more valuable.

Trust.

Because once confidence in the process disappears, every election becomes harder to accept, regardless of who wins.

And that may be the greatest challenge facing American elections today.

If we lose TRUST. And everyones vote is no longer handled in the same manner. So the votes all count as they should. It is important to consider the powers who have swooped into electorial offices, state houses, and federal offices. If they have violated that trust, they do not belong in those positions. They have failed to uphold the most basic of citizen’s right. The right to have their voice be heard, counted, and measured in the same balance as the next citizen. 

The basis for this report originated from a news report found at KPHO

New video has been provided showing the removal of the voting machine. To watch it click here.


Groff Media ©2026 benandsteve.com Truth Endures

The Next Political Shift May Not Be Left or Right

Groff Media ©2026 benandsteve.com Truth Endures

June 12, 2026

What if the biggest force in American politics isn’t ideology, but exhaustion?

“Do They Expect Me To Believe This?”

Every election cycle seems to arrive with the promise that this one will finally settle things.

It never does.

The arguments continue. The accusations continue. The campaigns never seem to end.

And yet, beneath the daily headlines, another possibility may be emerging.

What if the next major political movement in America isn’t driven by the far left or the far right?

What if it is driven by people who are simply tired?

Tired of being angry.

Tired of being told to hate neighbors who vote differently.

“God, he’s doing it again!”

Tired of waking up every morning to discover another crisis demanding immediate outrage.

For nearly a decade, American politics has been fueled by conflict. Political strategists understand something that television networks and social media platforms have learned as well: outrage captures attention.

Anger keeps viewers watching.

Fear keeps voters engaged.

Conflict generates clicks.

But there is evidence that many Americans may be reaching a saturation point.

“Again, with that?”

Poll after poll has shown declining trust in institutions, political parties, media organizations, and government itself. Yet beneath that distrust may be something more important: a desire for normalcy.

History suggests that political pendulums rarely stop at the extremes.

Eventually voters begin looking for stability.

Not excitement.

“AHH! No more pop up political ads!”

Not revolution.

Not constant crisis.

Just stability.

The nation has seen similar periods before. Following years of upheaval, Americans have often sought leaders who promised calm rather than confrontation. Sometimes those leaders succeeded. Sometimes they did not. But the desire itself repeatedly emerged.

Could that happen again?

No one knows.

It just never ends…

Political forecasting has become a risky business. Recent elections have repeatedly surprised experts from every perspective.

But one possibility seems worth considering.

The next political shift may not be a movement toward one party or another.

It may be a movement away from perpetual conflict.

Americans may begin rewarding candidates who spend less time attacking opponents and more time discussing solutions.

They may become less interested in political celebrities and more interested in competent managers.

They may become less concerned with winning arguments and more concerned with lowering costs, improving schools, strengthening infrastructure, and maintaining public safety.

If that happens, the political landscape could change rapidly.

Not because voters changed their beliefs.

But because they changed their priorities.

Perhaps the most important question facing the nation is not whether America will become more conservative or more progressive.

“Please just let me drive to work in peace”

It may be whether Americans decide they are simply exhausted by the constant fight.

And if enough people reach that point, the next great political movement could be something surprisingly rare in modern politics:

A movement toward peace, practicality, and common ground.

The future remains uncertain.

But if history teaches anything, it is that voters eventually tire of turmoil.

The question is whether that moment is approaching once again.


 

When Did You Decide? The Myth of Recruitment


© Benjamin H. Groff II — Truth Endures / benandsteve.com

June 8,2026


What many LGBTQ+ people say about discovering who they are.

This is not the LGBTQ+ community going door to door attempting to convert people.

In some small town, somewhere in America, a young teenager is struggling to understand who they are.

They have begun to realize they don’t quite fit in with their classmates. Somewhere between elementary school and junior high, something changed—or perhaps something that had always been there finally became impossible to ignore.

No one taught them this. No one recruited them. No one sat them down and instructed them to feel differently.

“People may choose what they do. They may choose what they say. They may choose whom they tell. But many would argue they never chose whom they were attracted to. They simply discovered who they were.”

They simply do.

For as long as they can remember, they felt different from many of the people around them. They couldn’t explain it. They didn’t have the words for it. But as they grew older, they found themselves admiring classmates, friends, or even television stars of the same sex rather than the opposite sex.

They don’t understand why.

Most spend years trying to understand themselves before anyone else ever discovers their secret. Many pray. Many bargain with God. Many try to ignore their feelings. Some throw themselves into sports, church, relationships, or anything else they hope will make those feelings disappear.

Yet for countless people, the feelings remain.

That is why attempts to force someone to change through shame, punishment, or so-called “conversion therapies” have been so controversial. For many LGBTQ+ people, these approaches are not introducing a struggle they have never faced. They are intensifying a struggle they have already been fighting alone.

And when a young person receives the message that the people they love most would rather change them than understand them, the consequences can be devastating.

One of the most persistent myths is the idea that there is an organized effort to “recruit” people into being gay. The claim ignores a simple question:

When did you decide to be straight?

Most heterosexual people cannot point to a day, an hour, or a moment when they consciously chose who they were attracted to. They simply discovered it as they grew up.

Many gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people describe their experiences in much the same way.

People can certainly choose how they live, how they express themselves, and what relationships they pursue. But attraction itself is often described as something discovered rather than selected.

COMING OUT UNDER FIRE A WORLD WAR II STORY

World War II Veterans declare their identity.
“We felt liberated once we had discovered our own secret. We were gay.” Learn more. Visit here…

There are, of course, individuals who describe themselves as “gay for pay”—people who engage in same-sex activity for financial reasons rather than because of their personal orientation. That is a different discussion entirely. Behavior and attraction are not always the same thing.

The larger question remains: 

If people are being recruited into being gay, where is the moment of recruitment?

When did you choose who you were attracted to?   

For most people, the answer is the same.

You didn't.

© Benjamin H. Groff II — Truth Endures / benandsteve.com

The Fabric of Freedom? L.A. County Engineer Sues Over Pride Flag

© Benjamin H. Groff II — Truth Endures / benandsteve.com

June 6, 2026


Can walking past a rainbow flag once a day create a legally recognized hostile work environment? That is the question central to a high-profile federal lawsuit rocking Los Angeles County.

You see a Progress Flag, they see a Confederate flag.
Can a flag really cause that much stress? It’s wild to think that just looking at a symbol once a day can push someone to sue their employer.

Eric Batman, a senior civil engineer with 24 years of service at the Department of Public Works, has officially sued his employer. Represented by the Liberty Counsel—the conservative Christian legal group famous for representing Kentucky clerk Kim Davis—Batman argues that the county’s June Pride flag mandate violates his constitutional rights.

The Core of the Conflict

In 2023, the Los Angeles County Board of Supervisors passed a policy requiring the Progress Pride flag to fly outside many county buildings throughout the month of June.
For Batman, who works out of the department’s Alhambra headquarters, the flag is not a symbol of inclusion, but a confrontation. According to the lawsuit, Batman holds deeply rooted Christian beliefs regarding biblical marriage and human sexuality. He contends that forcing him to walk past the flag daily compels him to “celebrate, recognize, and solemnize” actions his faith deems sinful.

Denied Remote Work and the “Back Door” Suggestion

Hoping to avoid the display entirely, Batman requested to work from home for the month of June in both 2024 and 2025. He already splits his time as a partial remote worker, meaning the logistics for a temporary work-from-home stint were already established.
However, the county flatly denied his accommodation requests. According to the lawsuit, county supervisors stated that remote work conflicted with their commitment to a “welcoming environment for all”. Instead, management offered two alternatives:
  • Use the rear entrance: Enter and exit the Alhambra building through the back door to avoid looking at the front flagpole.
  • Seek mental health counseling: Utilize county-provided counseling if the flag caused him emotional or spiritual distress.
Batman rejected both offers, viewingly the suggestion of “counseling” for his religious convictions as an overtly hostile act by management.

The Legal Argument: A Clash of Rights

Filed in the U.S. District Court for the Central District of California (Eric Batman v. Los Angeles County et al.), the suit claims violations under:
  1. Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964 (Religious Discrimination)
  2. The First Amendment (Free Exercise of Religion and Freedom from Compelled Speech)
  3. The Fourteenth Amendment (Equal Protection)
  4. California’s Fair Employment and Housing Act (FEHA)
Batman’s lawyers highlight a crucial point of comparison: the county has previously allowed Muslim employees temporary remote work flexibility during Ramadan. By denying Batman a similar one-month accommodation, his attorneys argue the county is engaging in selective, unconstitutional bias.
Furthermore, the legal team points to the 2023 Supreme Court precedent Groff v. DeJoy, which dictates that employers must grant religious accommodations unless doing so causes “substantial increased costs” to business operations. Batman’s lawyers argue that since his work record is exemplary and he already works remotely part-time, a one-month extension carries zero burden for the county.

The Public Backlash: Where is the Line?

The lawsuit has split public opinion, triggering intense online debate:
  • Critics of the lawsuit point out that the flag is government speech on a public flagpole, not a personal mandate. They argue that simply seeing a flag on a walk into an office does not restrict an individual’s personal faith or constitute a hostile work environment.
  • Supporters of the engineer argue that true inclusivity must include people of faith. They argue that forcing an employee to sneak through a back door or suggest they need therapy for their religious beliefs crosses a clear line into institutional bullying.
This is notably the second lawsuit L.A. County faces regarding this specific flag policy, following a 2024 suit by an evangelical county lifeguard who objected to being forced to open or manage facilities flying the banner.
As the case makes its way through federal court, it serves as a stark reminder of the ongoing culture wars shifting from the political stage directly into corporate and government office spaces.

Flags at Capitol building
Progress Flag Flying High Above In Opposition Of Confederate Flag At Capitol Building

BUT WHY DO PEOPLE LOOK AT A PIECE OF MATERIAL IN SUCH A WAY

Some conservative and religious critics draw this comparison to explain the depth of their objection.

From their perspective, the comparison is about how a symbol can represent a hostile ideology rather than a message of inclusion. However, historians, legal scholars, and social analysts point out that the two flags represent fundamentally different historical and structural concepts.
The comparison can be broken down into two distinct viewpoints:
1. The Perspective of Religious and Conservative Critics
For individuals who share the engineer’s viewpoint, the comparison is based on the emotional and cultural impact of the symbol:
  • Symbol of Exclusion: Critics argue that the Progress Pride flag has moved beyond a symbol of civil rights and now represents a specific political ideology that excludes traditional religious beliefs.
  • Perceived Hostility: From this viewpoint, seeing the flag flying on government property feels like an official endorsement of values that contradict their faith, creating a sense of being unwelcome or marginalized in their own workplace.
  • Compelled Culture: They view the widespread adoption of the flag by corporations and government agencies as a form of cultural dominance, similar to how marginalized groups view the dominant display of controversial historical symbols.
2. The Historical and Sociological Context
Scholars, civil rights advocates, and supporters of the Pride flag argue that comparing the two symbols is a false equivalence due to their origins and purposes:
Feature The Progress Pride Flag The Confederate Flag
Core Purpose Symbolizes inclusion, equal rights, and protection for a historically marginalized minority group. Symbolizes the Confederacy, a historical rebellion fought to maintain the institution of chattel slavery.
Historical Context Emerged from grassroots civil rights movements (beginning with the 1978 Gilbert Baker flag) to advocate against discrimination and violence. Used by a wartime government explicitly dedicated to white supremacy and the subjugation of Black Americans.
Modern Usage Flown by institutions to signal a welcoming, diverse environment and compliance with anti-discrimination laws. Frequently used by hate groups, white supremacists, and anti-government movements as a symbol of intimidation.

Summary

While a conservative employee may experience a genuine sense of personal or religious discomfort seeing the Pride flag—viewing it as a symbol of an ideology hostile to their faith—the comparison to the Confederate flag breaks down under historical and legal analysis. One symbol was created to advocate for the inclusion of a minority group, while the other was created to defend the systemic oppression of one.
When it comes down to it, the people against the “Progressive Flag” or “Gay Flag” say they suffer the same emotional suffering as those who suffer from emotional scars from the “Confederate Flag.”
The bottom line? At the heart of the debate is a simple question: Can a symbol cause emotional harm? Those who oppose the Progress Pride flag argue that it does. Those who oppose the Confederate flag have made a similar claim for years. The disagreement is not over whether symbols carry meaning, but over which meanings society chooses to embrace and which it chooses to reject.

© Benjamin H. Groff II — Truth Endures / benandsteve.com


When Does Opinion Become a Weapon Against a Business

© Benjamin H. Groff II — Truth Endures / benandsteve.com

June 6, 2026


The Cost of a Rumor

Targeted out of no where, for no reason!
Harley Davidson has been targeted for no apparent reason! A company that has been in good standing for over 120 years!

There was a time when if someone wanted to damage a business, they had to stand on a street corner and tell people not to shop there.

Today, all it takes is a social media account.

A single post can reach hundreds of thousands of people. A video can be shared across the country in hours. An accusation can become accepted as fact before anyone pauses to ask whether it is true.

That raises an important question:

When does criticism become defamation?

The question came to mind after reading reports about a recent social media campaign targeting Harley-Davidson.

For decades, Harley-Davidson has represented something uniquely American. Its motorcycles have become symbols of freedom, independence, veterans, road trips, and a culture that has existed for generations.

Yet over the past several weeks, social media influencers and political personalities began attacking the company, describing it as “woke,” “anti-American,” and even “gay.” At the same time, many of the same accounts were encouraging consumers to purchase motorcycles from a competing manufacturer, Indian Motorcycle. According to reporting by The Bulwark, numerous influencers appeared to be using remarkably similar talking points while simultaneously promoting Harley’s competitor. The article raised questions about whether the campaign was organic or coordinated. No evidence has publicly emerged proving who, if anyone, organized the effort.

What makes the situation unusual is that Harley-Davidson had already announced in 2024 that it had ended its DEI department and scaled back several diversity-related initiatives after previous criticism from activists. The company stated it no longer maintained a DEI function and would focus on growing motorcycling and serving its riding community.

Yet the attacks continued.

Whether readers agree or disagree with Harley-Davidson’s past decisions is not really the point.

The larger issue is what happens when public opinion is manufactured.

If a business actually engages in conduct that customers dislike, criticism is fair. Consumers have every right to spend their money where they choose.

But what if the accusations are exaggerated?

What if they are misleading?

What if they are completely false?

And what if someone is profiting from spreading those claims?

Those questions move beyond politics and into the realm of ethics.

Most Americans would likely agree that consumers deserve truthful information before making purchasing decisions. We expect truth in advertising. We expect products to perform as advertised. We expect companies not to deceive customers.

Should the same standard apply to people attempting to damage a company’s reputation?

American law has long protected free speech. It should.

But free speech and knowingly false statements have never been exactly the same thing. Businesses, like individuals, can suffer tremendous financial harm when false information spreads unchecked.

Imagine spending a lifetime building a company, employing thousands of workers, paying suppliers, supporting local communities, and creating a respected brand. Then one morning you discover strangers on the internet have decided to label your business with accusations that may bear little resemblance to reality.

The damage can be immediate.

Customers leave.

Sales decline.

Employees worry.

Investors react.

All because of something that may never have been true in the first place.

Social media has given every citizen a voice. That is one of the great achievements of the digital age.

But it has also created a world where rumors can travel farther than facts.

Perhaps the question facing America is not whether people should be allowed to criticize businesses.

Of course they should.

The real question is whether people who knowingly spread false information intended to harm a company should bear responsibility when real damage results.

That debate is likely to grow louder in the years ahead.

Because in today’s world, a rumor is no longer just a rumor.

It can become a weapon.

Closing Question

If someone intentionally spreads false information about a business for political, personal, or financial gain, should they be held responsible for the economic damage they cause?

THE BOTTOM LINE

If you hear information coming from someone. Especially a politician. Stop. Take it with a grain of salt. And then go do your own research. See if it is true. Don’t believe them when they tell you that everything you learn through research is false.

Thank you for visiting benandsteve.com TruthEndures


© Benjamin H. Groff II — Truth Endures / benandsteve.com

CBS Television: Slowly Dimming the Lights on a Broadcasting Legacy

Groff Media ©2026 benandsteve.com Truth Endures

May 23, 2026


The Lights Are Fading at CBS Television

The latest to be targeted "news rooms"

For years, programs like the television series FBI, NCIS, and Elsbeth built loyal audiences by offering dependable storytelling and familiar characters. Recently, however, some longtime viewers have expressed frustration not necessarily with the shows themselves, but with broader concerns surrounding the direction and management of CBS and CBS News.

  • CBS News evening news ratings have struggled in 2026. Reports indicate the network’s nightly news audience has remained well behind competitors at ABC and NBC, with several weeks falling below 4 million viewers.
  • Industry analysts have noted that some CBS entertainment programs are seeing softer live ratings compared to prior seasons, especially among traditional broadcast audiences. Elsbeth has been described by ratings analysts as one of CBS’s weaker live-viewed scripted programs, relying more heavily on delayed streaming audiences.
  • While flagship franchises like NCIS and FBI remain successful enough to receive renewals, overall network dominance has weakened. Industry reports suggest NBC may surpass CBS in total seasonal broadcast viewers for the first time in over a decade.
  • Online viewer commentary increasingly reflects frustration with corporate leadership decisions at CBS and Paramount rather than criticism of the actors or writing themselves. Viewer comments attached to ratings articles frequently mention distrust or dissatisfaction with network management decisions influencing their viewing habits.

Among certain audiences, that dissatisfaction appears to be spilling over into entertainment programming, with some viewers choosing to step away from the network altogether. Whether fair or not, perception matters in television, and public trust in a network can influence how audiences respond to its scripted content.

Shows like NCIS, FBI, and Elsbeth still deliver solid performances and experienced casts, but there is growing evidence that audience frustration with the direction of CBS and CBS News is beginning to affect viewer loyalty across the network. Ratings reports show CBS losing ground in several key areas, while online discussion increasingly centers on dissatisfaction with management decisions rather than the shows themselves. Whether temporary or long-term, the network appears to be facing a growing disconnect with part of its traditional audience.

The casts and production teams behind these programs continue delivering polished work, but viewer impressions of corporate leadership and news operations are increasingly becoming part of the conversation surrounding the network’s prime-time lineup.

Viewers continue to drift away, switching off the network in search of outlets they believe are more trustworthy and reliable. For many longtime television audiences, the situation feels like the fading of a legacy once defined by credibility and journalistic strength. One can only imagine pioneers like Walter Cronkite and Edward R. Murrow looking on with disappointment at what many viewers believe CBS has become


Groff Media ©2026 benandsteve.com Truth Endures

Farewell & Remembrance – Barney Frank

By Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026


Image – Groff Media ©2026 benandsteve.com Truth Endures

Barney Frank

1940 – 2025

Public Servant. Trailblazer. Champion. Icon.

Former Congressman Barney Frank has died. Reports indicate that Frank entered hospice care at his home in Ogunquit, Maine, while battling congestive heart failure. According to the Associated Press.

Frank died late Tuesday, according to Jim Segel, Frank’s former campaign manager and close friend.

“Former Congressman Barney Frank, one of the most recognizable and influential openly gay lawmakers in American history, spent his final days in hospice care at his home in Ogunquit, Maine. The longtime Massachusetts representative, known for his sharp wit, fierce advocacy, and groundbreaking role in LGBTQI representation in Congress, had been battling congestive heart failure. As supporters, friends, and admirers reflect on his legacy, many are honoring a public servant whose voice helped reshape conversations about equality, civil rights, and representation in America.”

Barney Frank was many things to many people: a fierce advocate, a sharp intellect, a political force, and a voice that could cut through the noise with clarity and conviction. But above all, he was a champion for fairness, equality, and the rights of those too often left on the margins.

As one of the first openly gay members of Congress, Barney Frank broke barriers with unapologetic authenticity. He did not merely open doors for others — he helped tear them down. From fighting for LGBTQI rights to shaping major financial reform through the Dodd-Frank legislation, his impact on the nation remains undeniable.

Barney possessed a wit that could disarm opponents, a mind capable of dissecting the most complex issues, and a determination that never stopped pushing for what he believed was right. His public service helped redefine what representation looked like in America and inspired generations who once believed they had no place in government, leadership, or public life.

For countless members of the LGBTQI community, Barney Frank stood as proof that courage and honesty could change history. He understood the weight of silence, and he refused to live within it. In doing so, he became not just a lawmaker, but a symbol of progress and perseverance.

“Equality is not a special interest. It is a human right.”
— Barney Frank

Today we remember a man who helped shape modern America through intelligence, humor, resilience, and conviction. His voice may now be silent, but the legacy he leaves behind continues to echo through every conversation about equality, dignity, and justice.

Thank you, Barney.
You recorded history.
You changed it.
And you will be remembered.

Rest in Power.


Groff Media ©2026 benandsteve.com Truth Endures

 

Inclusion Is How We Heal a Broken World

May 20th, 2026By Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026

__________________________________________________________________

Sometimes the road to healing begins with nothing more than making sure no one feels left behind.

Keep your friends close, even if they live far way.There are times in life when the smallest gestures carry the greatest meaning. A phone call. A handshake. A hug at a restaurant. Or simply hearing someone say, “We’re in town — come see us.” Those moments tell people they matter. In a world growing increasingly divided by politics, class, social standing, race, religion, and ideology, inclusion may be one of the last true bridges we have left.
Too many people today quietly carry the feeling of being left out. Sometimes it happens intentionally. Other times, people simply become busy, distracted, or absorbed in different circles. But exclusion, whether deliberate or accidental, leaves scars people rarely speak about openly. It creates loneliness in neighborhoods, divisions in families, and distance between old friends who once shared life together.
Yet inclusion has the power to heal much of that brokenness.
When we invite others to the table, we do more than share a meal. We remind people they are seen. We tell them their history with us mattered. We acknowledge their humanity and their place in our lives. A simple invitation can restore dignity to someone who feels forgotten. It can calm resentment before it hardens into bitterness. It can rebuild trust in a time when trust is disappearing from much of American life.
I often think about a small sign that hung in my grandparents’ home. It read, “The road to a friend’s home is never too long.” Those words were not simply decoration. They reflected a way of life. Back then, people stopped by to visit. Coffee was poured without ceremony. Extra chairs were always found. Folks did not ask what social class you belonged to before opening the door.
Somewhere along the way, much of society drifted from that spirit. Success was measured by status rather than kindness. Invitations became selective. Social circles became guarded. Technology connected the world while somehow making many people feel more isolated than ever before.
But perhaps the answer to repairing the country is not always found in Washington, headlines, or social movements alone. Perhaps part of the healing begins much smaller. Around dinner tables. At backyard cookouts. In reunions where nobody is intentionally left behind. In learning once again how to make people feel welcome.
Inclusion does not mean everyone must agree. It does not mean every friendship survives forever. But it does mean we can choose decency over social competition. Compassion over silent judgment. Humanity over hierarchy.
America has always been strongest when ordinary people looked out for one another. Neighbors helping neighbors. Friends remembering friends. Communities making room for those who felt forgotten. That spirit built towns, churches, schools, volunteer fire departments, and generations of families who survived hard times together.
Maybe that is what we need again.
Not perfection. Not performance. Not pretending.
Just people willing to say: “You still matter to us. Come sit with us awhile.”
Sometimes the road to healing the world begins with nothing more complicated than making sure the road to a friend’s home is never too long.
_________________________________________________________________

← Back

Thank you for your response. ✨

Continue reading

When Crime Happens: What Every Citizen Should Know About Becoming a Victim

© Benjamin H. Groff II — Truth Endures / benandsteve.com

May 18th, 2026

__________________________________________________________________

It is hoped you will never become the victim of a crime. No person leaves home expecting their vehicle to be burglarized, their property stolen, or their sense of security shattered in a matter of moments. Yet every day, across cities, towns, suburbs, and rural communities, ordinary people suddenly find themselves dealing with the emotional shock and confusion that follows criminal victimization.

One of the most important things a person can remember is this: your safety comes first.

Property can be replaced. Lives cannot.

Law enforcement officers have long stressed that victims often unintentionally place themselves in additional danger after discovering a crime has occurred. Some rush into burglarized homes. Others attempt to confront suspects. Some unknowingly destroy evidence while trying to clean up the scene or assess damage.

Those first few minutes matter.

Why Summer Months Often Bring More Victimization

Historically, criminal justice researchers and law enforcement agencies have observed increases in certain types of crime during warmer months. The reason is not simply heat or weather itself. It is human activity.

During summer, society becomes more socially active.

People travel more. Families vacation. Teenagers stay out later. Festivals, concerts, sporting events, and gatherings increase. Parks, lakes, malls, restaurants, and entertainment districts become crowded. Homes sit empty while families travel. Vehicles are left unattended for longer periods.

Unfortunately, criminals notice opportunity.

The more interaction and movement that occurs within a community, the greater the chance for:

  • vehicle burglaries,
  • thefts,
  • assaults,
  • robberies,
  • fraud,
  • vandalism,
  • road rage incidents,
  • and alcohol-related confrontations.

This does not mean people should fear enjoying life. It simply means awareness becomes more important during periods of increased activity.

Criminals often look for distractions, vulnerabilities, and easy opportunities. A locked car, a well-lit home, alert neighbors, and cautious behavior can sometimes be enough to make a criminal move on to an easier target.

What To Do If You Discover A Crime

If you discover you have become the victim of a crime, remember these important steps:

1. Put Your Safety First

If you believe a suspect could still be nearby, leave the area immediately if possible. Do not attempt to confront or chase someone unless absolutely necessary to protect life.

Many offenders are unpredictable, desperate, or under the influence of drugs or alcohol.

2. Do Not Touch Anything

Avoid touching doors, windows, drawers, vehicles, or objects the suspect may have handled. Fingerprints, DNA, shoe impressions, and other evidence can easily be destroyed.

Even straightening up the scene before police arrive can unintentionally damage evidence investigators need.

3. Do Not Enter A Burglarized Home, Building, Or Vehicle

If you notice an open door, broken window, damaged lock, or signs of forced entry, do not go inside.

The suspect may still be there.

Move to a safe location and contact law enforcement immediately.

4. Call 911 Or The Non-Emergency Number

Call 911 if:

  • the crime is in progress,
  • someone may be injured,
  • the suspect could still be nearby,
  • or immediate danger exists.

Use the non-emergency number if the crime already occurred and there is no active threat.

Try to provide:

  • your location,
  • what happened,
  • suspect descriptions,
  • vehicle descriptions,
  • direction of travel,
  • and whether weapons were involved.

5. Stay Nearby — But At A Safe Distance

Remain where officers can locate you, but avoid standing directly inside or near the scene.

If possible, position yourself where you can observe entrances or exits without placing yourself at risk.

6. Allow Officers To Secure The Scene

When officers arrive, avoid rushing toward them. Police responding to a crime scene do not immediately know who is involved or whether danger still exists.

Allow officers to approach and follow their instructions carefully.

7. Do Not Re-Enter Until Police Say It Is Safe

Even if you want to check for damage or missing items, wait until officers clear the scene.

Investigators may still be searching for suspects or processing evidence.

8. Write Down What You Remember

Memory fades quickly after stressful events.

As soon as possible, write down:

  • suspect descriptions,
  • clothing,
  • tattoos,
  • vehicle information,
  • statements made,
  • times,
  • sounds,
  • or anything unusual you noticed.

Small details often become major breaks in investigations.

9. Preserve Digital Evidence

Do not delete:

  • security camera footage,
  • doorbell camera recordings,
  • text messages,
  • threatening social media posts,
  • or cellphone video.

Inform investigators those items exist.

10. Understand Your Rights As A Victim

Some victims hesitate to cooperate because they fear retaliation or becoming publicly involved.

If you are afraid, tell officers or investigators immediately.

Victims in many states may qualify for:

  • victim advocacy services,
  • protective orders,
  • confidentiality protections,
  • counseling resources,
  • and notification services during court proceedings.

11. Cooperation Matters

In many cases, especially assaults, thefts, harassment, or domestic incidents, victim cooperation plays a critical role in whether charges move forward.

If victims decide not to prosecute or participate, investigators may have limited ability to continue the case unless strong independent evidence exists.

That decision is personal, but victims should understand their rights and options before making it.

Awareness Is One Of The Best Protections

No community is completely immune from crime. Rural towns, suburbs, and large cities alike all experience moments where ordinary people suddenly become victims.

But awareness, caution, and preparation remain powerful tools.

Lock vehicles. Secure homes. Stay alert in crowded areas. Watch out for neighbors. Report suspicious activity. Trust your instincts when something feels wrong.

Most importantly, never place property above personal safety.

A stolen television can be replaced.

A life cannot.


For benandsteve.com
Truth Endures.

Viral “Human Jerky” Story Making the Rounds Again — But It’s Fiction, Not Fact

Regardless, You May Never Eat Beef Jerky With The Same Satisfaction Again.

Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026

Suspect Manipulator

Internet Claim: Man Used Missing Men’s Bodies To Make Famous Beef Jerky

Local authorities arrested Buckworth on suspicion of using human meat for the jerky he sold to the public, and police needed to find the source of the meat.


A grotesque story now circulating again on Facebook, TikTok, and other social media platforms claims a man from Wenatchee was arrested after investigators supposedly discovered his “best-selling jerky” was made from human meat. The post names a man called “Ross Buckworth,” claims missing workers were connected to the case, and attempts to present itself as a real criminal investigation.

There is just one problem.

None of it is true.

The story is a recycled internet hoax that has been reposted for years in slightly different versions. In some versions the suspect is named “Ross Buckworth.” In others, “Leslie Buckworth.” Sometimes the story claims the events happened in Washington state. Other times it says Montana. The details change because the story itself is fabricated. 

Fact-checking organizations previously traced earlier versions of the same claim to satire and fake-news style websites. Snopes labeled one widely shared version as satire. Another debunk pointed directly to a satirical source site that openly described itself as a humor publication. 

What appears to have confused many readers is that the hoax borrows pieces from a real Wyoming wildlife-poaching case involving illegal jerky sales. In that legitimate case, Wyoming investigators discovered a man had been selling jerky made from poached mule deer and antelope while marketing it as beef jerky. DNA testing confirmed the meat came from illegally killed wildlife — not humans. 

The actual Wyoming case involved wildlife violations investigated by the Wyoming Game and Fish Department. Authorities charged the suspect with poaching-related crimes, illegal sale of game meat, and hunting violations. No accusations involving human remains or cannibalism were ever part of the case. 

That real story appears to have been twisted into sensational clickbait.

The viral post also shows several classic signs of internet fabrication:

  • No legitimate law enforcement agency confirms the arrest. 
  • No credible newspaper or television outlet reported the story. 
  • The alleged suspect cannot be verified through official records. 
  • The details change depending on who reposts it. 
  • The story uses shock value designed to trigger emotional reactions and sharing. 

This is how many social media hoaxes survive. They blend one small piece of reality with outrageous fiction, then rely on people sharing before checking the facts.

In today’s online environment, shocking stories spread faster than verified information. The more disturbing the claim, the more engagement it receives. Algorithms reward outrage, fear, and disgust because people react emotionally before they pause to ask whether something is actually true.

That is exactly why stories like this continue to resurface every few years.

The “human jerky” story is not a hidden crime finally exposed to the public.

It is internet folklore dressed up as breaking news. And on this occasion, if you happen to see the story floating around Facebook, TikTok, or anywhere else online, you have the official blessing of benandsteve.com and GroffMedia©2026 — Truth Endures — to politely inform whoever is posting it that it is, without question, truly FAKE NEWS!


Groff Media ©2026 benandsteve.com Truth Endures

The Country Inside Our Front Door

The Politics of the Front Yard

Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026


I have spent most of my life trying to understand people by observing them. Watching. Listening. Gathering information. Trying to decide what was true and what was not. It is not always the easiest way to live. Sometimes it places you on the wrong side of popularity. Sometimes it means standing beside people others mock, avoid, or openly dislike. That can cost you friendships, opportunities, promotions, and acceptance. It can mark you long before you understand the price of it.

This is reportedly the first known photo of the white house.

But there is another price too.

The price of ignoring what you know is right simply because everyone else is moving in another direction.

I learned early there are always people willing to promise answers for everything. Politicians who swear they alone can save the country. Religious leaders who imply salvation can somehow be purchased through loyalty, donations, or obedience. Public figures who convince followers that happiness is just one more contribution, one more vote, or one more enemy away.

Over time, I began to distrust anyone selling certainty.

Life taught me that most people claiming to have all the answers are usually one of three things: mistaken, manipulative, or desperate to be believed themselves.

That does not mean faith is worthless. Or that government has no purpose. Or that communities should not come together. It simply means no politician, church, movement, or television personality can do the hardest work for you. They cannot build your character. They cannot create your peace of mind. They cannot decide your morals. They cannot make your home stable, loving, or decent.

Only you can do that.

As a child, I developed a strange little understanding of America during a fourth-grade civics lesson. I imagined our house as its own country. My father was the president. My mother was the vice president. My brothers were senators and representatives. My sisters and I were citizens living under the structure they created.

It made perfect sense to me.

There were rules. Responsibilities. Budgets. Expectations. Sometimes disagreements. Sometimes punishments. Sometimes celebrations. But the purpose of the “government” inside our home was not domination. It was stability. Protection. Survival. Keeping the lights on. Making certain everyone had what they needed.

We did not hold elections.

We did not need to.

In my child’s mind, my parents already held the positions because they had proven themselves capable of carrying the responsibility. They worked. Paid the bills. Protected the household. They had earned the authority through sacrifice.

Looking back now, I realize that little imaginary country taught me more about America than many adults ever understand.

A nation is only as healthy as the homes inside it.

Not the slogans.

Not the campaigns.

Not the outrage.

What matters most is how people choose to live within their own space and how willing they are to allow others to live within theirs.

The loudest voices in America keep demanding control over everyone else’s space. Maybe freedom was never supposed to work that way.

Your life is not destroyed because your neighbor is gay while you are not. Or because they worship differently. Or because they speak another language. Or because their skin is darker than yours. Their space belongs to them. Yours belongs to you.

The loudest voices in America keep demanding control over everyone else’s space. Maybe freedom was never supposed to work that way.

Somewhere along the way, many people forgot that freedom was never supposed to mean controlling everyone else’s existence. It was supposed to mean protecting the right of people to peacefully exist beside one another.

That is what I still believe.

Not because someone told me to believe it.

But because after a lifetime of watching people, I have found fear usually creates far more damage than difference ever does.


The Country Inside Our Front Door

Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026

The United States 2017 to 2026 – What Has Changed?

Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026


America Then and Now: From Trump’s First Day to May 13, 2026

American flag artwork illuminated with blue, red, and white lights featuring cracks

On January 20, 2017, when Donald Trump first placed his hand on the Bible and took the oath of office, America entered one of the most turbulent and transformative periods in modern history. Supporters saw a political outsider promising to “drain the swamp,” restore manufacturing, secure borders, and confront institutions many Americans no longer trusted. Critics saw a dangerous shift away from democratic norms, political restraint, and traditional alliances. Nearly a decade later, on May 13, 2026, the United States is not the same nation it was on that cold January afternoon.

The changes have touched every corner of American life — politics, media, policing, religion, race relations, public trust, education, immigration, foreign policy, and even how neighbors speak to one another.

America has not merely changed politically.

It has changed emotionally.

In 2017, political division certainly existed, but there were still areas where Americans generally trusted the same institutions. Major news organizations still held broad authority. Scientific agencies were rarely treated as enemies. Elections, while contested, were still largely accepted as final. Disagreements happened, but many people still believed the country operated within a shared reality.

The rise of social media influence, partisan broadcasting, independent online commentary, conspiracy culture, and algorithm-driven outrage has reshaped how Americans consume information. Millions of citizens now live inside entirely different versions of the country depending on what they watch, read, and believe. To one American, the nation is being saved. To another, it is collapsing. Both may live on the same street while barely recognizing one another’s understanding of truth.

Trust — once damaged — became one of the first casualties of the Trump era.

The years following 2017 saw impeachment battles, protests, investigations, riots, accusations of election interference, and a global pandemic that exposed deep weaknesses in national unity. The arrival of COVID-19 in 2020 transformed the nation in ways historians will debate for generations. Masks became political symbols. Vaccines became ideological battlegrounds. Families split apart over beliefs. Schools closed. Businesses vanished. Millions lost jobs, loved ones, or stability.

At the same time, movements such as Black Lives Matter and counter-movements supporting law enforcement reshaped public discourse surrounding race and policing. Police officers found themselves increasingly scrutinized, recorded, criticized, and in some cases abandoned by political leaders. Yet communities suffering from crime simultaneously begged for stronger protection and stability. The nation entered a strange contradiction: distrusting police while demanding safety.

One side viewed Trump as unfairly persecuted by a political establishment determined to stop him at all costs. The other viewed investigations and prosecutions as accountability finally reaching a man they believed operated above the law. The result was devastating to public confidence. Americans no longer simply disagreed on policies — they disagreed on whether institutions themselves could still be trusted.

Meanwhile, immigration transformed into one of the defining emotional and political battles of the age. Border security, asylum claims, human trafficking, labor shortages, humanitarian concerns, and national identity collided in a debate that grew increasingly heated with every passing year. Images of overcrowded facilities, migrant caravans, and overwhelmed cities became central political weapons for both parties. To some Americans, stronger borders symbolized survival. To others, compassion and asylum reflected the nation’s moral responsibility.

Church attendance continued declining in many regions, while political identity increasingly merged with religious identity. Faith became not only spiritual, but tribal. In some churches, patriotism and Christianity became nearly inseparable. In others, religious leaders openly challenged nationalism and authoritarian tendencies. Americans began searching less for spiritual agreement and more for ideological reinforcement.

Inflation, housing costs, corporate consolidation, labor shortages, and technological disruption changed daily life. The American dream — once measured by home ownership and financial security — became harder to reach for younger generations. Many Americans now work multiple jobs while carrying enormous debt. Small towns struggle to survive while massive corporations dominate commerce and information alike.

And yet, despite all of this, America did not stop moving forward.

Artificial intelligence exploded into public life. Remote work reshaped employment. Medical technology advanced. Independent journalism flourished online. Citizens who once had no voice suddenly reached millions through podcasts, blogs, videos, and social platforms. The gatekeepers lost control over information. That freedom empowered some people to tell important truths while allowing others to spread manipulation and fear.

That may be the defining struggle of America in 2026:

Not simply left versus right.

The United States today is louder, angrier, more suspicious, and more divided than it was when Trump first entered office. Yet it is also more awake to its own fragility. Americans have witnessed how quickly trust can erode, how easily institutions can be questioned, and how dangerous it becomes when citizens stop believing they share the same nation.

Some believe the country is being rebuilt.

Others believe it is unraveling.

Perhaps both are happening at the same time.

History will likely remember the years between 2017 and 2026 as an era when America stopped assuming its future was guaranteed. The nation discovered that democracy is not self-sustaining, trust is not permanent, and freedom requires more than slogans shouted at rallies or hashtags typed online.

It requires citizens willing to listen even when they disagree.

Whether America still possesses enough of those citizens may determine what happens next.


Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026

The Bible, Abortion, and the Politics of Selective Morality

There is no sense in debating the issues of abortion, racial prejudices involving the Palestinian People, and whether or not there is a God or the equal rights movement, in sixty years people will still be debating these issues, why fall in that trap?

© Benjamin H. Groff II — Truth Endures / benandsteve.com


Open antique law book with ornate initial, brass balance scale, quill, and inkpot on wooden table
GroffMedia©TruthEndures 2006

For decades, anti-abortion organizations in America have cited Biblical authority as the foundational justification for their movement. Through protest signs, political speeches, church campaigns, and fundraising letters, they represent opposition to abortion not merely as a political issue, but as an unequivocal mandate from God. However, this essay contends that such appeals to scripture are selective and may overlook significant biblical passages that both complicate and, at times, directly challenge the certainty and absolutism with which many modern anti-abortion groups present their views.

Former U.S. President Jimmy Carter once suggested that there was no sense in debating the issues of abortion, racial prejudices involving the Palestinian People, and whether or not there is a God or the equal rights movement. Barry Goldwater overheard him saying that in 60 years, people will still fight one another over these subjects. Putting together an argument to be sure to use them as political hay, so there is no use in my falling for their trap! And he was right. Regardless of what is decided today, others will continue to argue for the rights of these regardless of what is decided now. Today is never definite.

Still.

The verses ignored in these debates are violent, uncomfortable, and inconvenient to absolute arguments.

One of the most often mentioned passages is Genesis 2:7, which says life begins when Adam receives “the breath of life.” People who oppose abortion interpret this verse in various ways, but critics say it suggests personhood starts at birth, with breath, instead of at conception. This view is very different from modern political claims that life begins at fertilization.

Exodus 21:22-25 discusses a scenario in which a pregnant woman is injured during a fight and consequently loses her fetus. According to scholars such as Phyllis Trible and John J. Collins, the punishment prescribed for this loss differs significantly from that for killing a person, indicating that the biblical text assigns a different value to fetal life (Trible, 1978; Collins, 2004). 

Historians, including Jonathan Klawans and Christine Hayes, also contend that ancient Hebrew law did not equate fetal death with the killing of an already born individual, but rather treated it as a lesser offense within its legal system (Klawans, 2012; Hayes, 2001).

Perhaps most controversial is Numbers 5:11-31, called the “ordeal of bitter water.” In this passage, a priest performs a ritual on a woman suspected of adultery. Critics of anti-abortion theology say the text describes a divinely sanctioned miscarriage if adultery occurred. Opponents of modern anti-abortion activism see a contradiction: groups say the Bible always condemns abortion, yet they rarely discuss a passage that seems to permit or even command ending a pregnancy in some cases.

The criticism gets stronger when readers see violent Old Testament passages about pregnant women and children. In 2 Kings 8:12 and Hosea 13:16, invading armies rip open pregnant women. Isaiah 13:18 describes unborn children destroyed during judgment. Critics say that while these verses describe war or punishment, they challenge claims that scripture always treats fetal life as sacred.

To many observers, the issue is not merely theology — it is selective morality.

Critics say anti-abortion movements focus on a few verses while ignoring bigger Biblical themes, like poverty, healthcare, compassion, violence, orphan care, and social justice. Some also say these organizations fight abortion but oppose programs that could reduce unwanted pregnancies, like prenatal care, food aid, childcare, sex education, or affordable healthcare.

Others say the modern anti-abortion movement is political as well as religious. Historians have shown that abortion became a key issue in American conservative politics in the late 1970s and 1980s. It helped mobilize voters and build evangelical political power. Critics believe this history raises questions about whether the movement is based on scripture or on political strategy wrapped in religious language.

At the same time, many people of faith point to scriptures such as Psalm 139:13-16 (“For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb”) and Jeremiah 1:5 (“Before I formed you in the womb I knew you”) as evidence that unborn life holds deep spiritual value. For them, the abortion debate is not political, but a sincere belief that life is sacred from its earliest beginnings.

This does not mean that the Bible is “anti-abortion” or “pro-abortion”. The scriptures are ancient, complex, and have been read differently by various groups over hundreds of years. Many sincere believers oppose abortion because they value the unborn life. Critics, however, reject the idea that opposition is the only Christian view. People who believe in a sky daddy, and maybe still, in a real Santa Claus, Tooth Fairy, or Easter Bunny, according to extreme critics.

Desert camp with large tents, stone tablets inscribed with ancient symbols, and people walking around at dusk.

The larger question may not be whether scripture can be used to oppose abortion. Clearly, it can.

The central issue, therefore, is whether anti-abortion groups sufficiently address the complexity and diversity inherent in Biblical teachings when presenting them as absolute authority in the abortion debate. This raises a broader question: whether these groups offer a comprehensive, contextually nuanced interpretation of scripture, or, as critics argue, oversimplify and selectively interpret biblical texts to serve specific political and ideological agendas. Thus, the debate centers not only on what the Bible says about abortion, but also on how faithfully its teachings are represented in contemporary discourse.

When difficult verses are excluded and uncomfortable passages ignored, faith risks drifting from spiritual truth toward political convenience. If scripture is going to be used to shape public belief, then all of scripture — including the passages that appear to challenge the argument — should be part of the discussion. As the old saying goes, “what’s good for the goose is good for the gander.” People should be trusted to hear the full text and decide for themselves, rather than being instructed only on what they are expected to believe. Yet for some, allowing that kind of open examination may itself be seen as a threat to established belief.


Groff Media ©2026 benandsteve.com Truth Endures

Reestablishing Editorial Standards: GroffMedia’s Collaborative Efforts

We are currently considering a return to Flipboard Media and the possible return of content services to and from GroffMedia, benandsteve.com, 2026 TruthEndures©. The proposal is under consideration.

Groff Media ©2026 benandsteve.com Truth Endures


benandsteve.com is currently considering returning to Flipboard Media, the possible return of content services to and from GroffMedia, benandsteve.com, 2026 TruthEndures©. As stated the proposal is under consideration.

Any return arrangement would require full editorial oversight and content review authority regarding material published under the name of Benjamin Groff, GroffMedia, benandsteve.com, or any affiliated entity. The purpose behind this requirement is rooted in a growing concern over balance, accountability, and fairness in modern media reporting.

Boardroom meeting with executives and CEO discussing stalled merger news

GroffMedia’s position is that journalism should reflect principles similar to the equal broadcast standards that existed prior to their dismantling during the Reagan era in the 1980s. While modern media has evolved, we believe there remains value in restoring elements of balanced reporting — ensuring that opposing viewpoints, facts, and perspectives receive meaningful and proportional representation.

Under this approach, articles submitted for publication would be expected to demonstrate reasonable efforts toward balanced coverage. That would include presenting both supporting and opposing perspectives with equal seriousness in research, interviews, reporting effort, and editorial consideration. The goal is not censorship or restriction of opinion, but rather a commitment to responsible journalism that informs rather than inflames.

One of the largest challenges facing such an effort is determining how these standards could be maintained among the many contributors who submit material through platforms such as Flipboard. Equally important is the process of selecting content that remains timely, relevant, beneficial to readers, and consistent with the editorial principles GroffMedia seeks to uphold.

At its core, the discussion is not simply about publishing content. It is about whether modern independent media can still create an environment where fairness, depth, and accountability are valued alongside speed and public engagement.

A major question at this stage is how to ensure that contributors submitting material for consideration consistently meet these editorial standards. One approach currently being explored is the development of a national grading or evaluation system designed to identify organizations, research groups, journalism institutions, and independent sources that demonstrate strong commitments to accuracy, balance, transparency, and accountability in reporting.

The challenge is not simply identifying who publishes the most content, but determining which organizations consistently apply equal effort to fact gathering, source verification, opposing viewpoints, corrections, and editorial integrity. Any standards adopted would need to measure credibility and fairness rather than ideology or political preference.

As this effort develops, GroffMedia hopes to identify trusted resources and partnerships capable of helping guide this mission in a meaningful and measurable way. If the project moves forward as intended, additional information regarding participating organizations, evaluation methods, and publication guidelines will be made available in the near future.

If Flipboard content does return, it will be under the understanding that only providers meeting those editorial standards will be eligible for posting to affiliated accounts. One of the concerns currently under review is whether such oversight can realistically be maintained without becoming excessively time-consuming or difficult to manage.

Among the ideas being considered is limiting reposted material to news organizations and media outlets that rank above a determined threshold within a recognized national grading or credibility system. Whether that approach can provide the balance, fairness, and consistency intended remains part of the ongoing evaluation process involving accounts associated with benandsteve.com and GroffMedia.


Groff Media ©2026 benandsteve.com Truth Endures

The Growing Questions Surrounding Missing Scientists, National Security, and America’s Crisis of Trust

Scientists Vanish. Questions Grow. America Watches.

By Benjamin Groff II
Groff Media © Truth Endures


Federal authorities are reportedly reviewing a growing number of deaths and disappearances involving scientists and researchers tied to aerospace, military, and nuclear-related programs across the United States — cases that are now drawing increasing public scrutiny and online speculation.

Among the names receiving renewed attention is Monica Jacinto Reza, a materials engineer associated with NASA’s Jet Propulsion Laboratory and aerospace contractor Aerojet Rocketdyne, who disappeared while hiking in California during June 2025. Reza has not been located.

Her disappearance is one of several cases involving individuals connected to sensitive government research programs.

Retired Air Force Major General William “Neil” McCasland, former commander of the Air Force Research Laboratory, vanished from his Albuquerque residence in February 2026. Authorities stated personal belongings, including communication devices, remained at the home.

Anthony Chavez, formerly employed by Los Alamos National Laboratory, disappeared in New Mexico during May 2025.

Meanwhile, several researchers tied to NASA or affiliated scientific institutions have died in recent years under circumstances that continue drawing online attention, including Michael David Hicks, Frank Maiwald, and Caltech astrophysicist Carl Grillmair.

At present, there is no publicly available evidence establishing a direct connection among the cases.

Yet the growing public reaction may reveal something equally significant: the continuing erosion of trust between Americans and their institutions.

On social media and cable television, discussion surrounding the disappearances has increasingly merged with broader fears involving political extremism, government secrecy, foreign influence operations, surveillance, and authoritarian behavior.

Experts warn that such speculation often accelerates during periods of institutional distrust, particularly when official explanations are limited, delayed, or incomplete.

“What changes societies,” one former intelligence analyst noted in a previous national security forum, “is not always the event itself, but whether the public believes the explanation afterward.”

That concern appears increasingly visible in the United States.

Public distrust has intensified amid political polarization, expanding federal power debates, immigration crackdowns, aggressive rhetoric surrounding dissent, and ongoing controversy involving executive authority.

“History shows that when trust collapses, societies begin feeding themselves urban legends dressed in political clothing.”

In previous decades, Americans often associated political disappearances and unexplained deaths with unstable governments abroad. Increasingly, however, those same fears are appearing within domestic political discourse itself.

Whether these individual cases ultimately prove connected or entirely unrelated, they have exposed a growing national anxiety difficult to ignore:

Millions of Americans no longer feel certain they are being told the truth.

And once a nation reaches that point, speculation becomes unavoidable.

And those are only some of the names now circulating in reports, congressional discussions, online investigations, and cable news speculation.

To be absolutely clear:
There is currently no public evidence proving these cases are connected.

But that disclaimer no longer calms people the way it once would have.

Because Americans have entered an age where trust in institutions has collapsed so completely that many citizens now instinctively believe the worst explanations first.

That alone should terrify us.

At the same time these disappearances fail to dominate headlines, Americans are watching dramatic changes around the White House itself — including controversy surrounding Trump’s proposed ballroom construction and expanding concrete work near the executive complex. In another era, Americans might have dismissed dark speculation instantly.

Today many no longer do.

Not because evidence exists.
But because confidence no longer exists.

History shows what happens when governments stop answering questions clearly. Rumors become accepted reality. Fear replaces trust. Citizens begin wondering whether powerful people can make opponents, critics, immigrants, journalists — or scientists — simply vanish.

That is not supposed to happen in America.

Yet here we are.

Maybe every one of these tragedies has an unrelated explanation. Maybe every disappearance is coincidence. Maybe every death is exactly what officials say it is.

But when scientists connected to sensitive aerospace, military, and nuclear work begin disappearing across multiple states, Americans are going to ask questions.

And they should.

Because the moment citizens stop asking where people went… is the moment freedom itself begins disappearing too.

Yet today there begins a modern folklore, an urban legend – people online are asking “have they moved Jimmy Hoffa” and asking “is he now under Trump’s Ball room?” Or, “is that where the other bodies are going?” The message boards and threads are running wild. Whether as a citizen, or spectator from another country, please continue to do what is needed – keep asking questions.




Groff Media ©2026 benandsteve.com Truth Endures

How the T-Shirt Became an American Icon

By Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026


creative clothesline with paper t shirt art
Photo by Marek Ruczaj on Pexels.com

Someone asked during a conversation yesterday where the T-shirt got its name.

I honestly had never given it much thought. It was just… a T-shirt. That’s what everyone called it when I was growing up. A plain white undershirt hanging on a clothesline, folded in dresser drawers, or tossed over the back of a chair was simply a “T-shirt.” No explanation ever needed.

But the question stayed with me.

Everything has an origin. Even the most ordinary things we stop noticing had to begin somewhere. Somebody, somewhere, had to create it, name it, wear it, and eventually make it part of everyday life. So I decided to do a little digging.

What I found was surprisingly interesting.

A Shirt Shaped Like a Letter

The most widely accepted explanation is also the simplest: the shirt resembles the shape of a capital “T” when laid flat. Sleeves stretched outward, body hanging downward — there it was. A “T-shirt.”

Sometimes the simplest answer really is the correct one.

But the story goes deeper than shape alone.

The U.S. Navy and the Birth of the Modern T-Shirt

The modern T-shirt is largely credited to the United States Navy around 1913. Sailors were issued lightweight, short-sleeved cotton undershirts to wear beneath their uniforms.

Navy Tee-Shirt Origin Groff Media

At the time, heavy wool uniforms were common, uncomfortable, and brutally hot below deck. These new cotton shirts were breathable, washable, inexpensive, and practical. Sailors began wearing them while working, especially in warmer climates.

Before long, they were being worn not just under uniforms — but by themselves.

That simple military undershirt quietly became one of the most recognized articles of clothing on Earth.

Did the “T” Mean “Training”?

There are also theories suggesting the “T” stood for “training,” as in “training shirt,” particularly tied to military use. While interesting, historians generally lean toward the far simpler explanation involving the shirt’s shape.

Still, like many pieces of history, a little mystery remains.

Literature Helped Spread the Name

This Side of Paradise – Groff Media©2026

One of the earliest known uses of the term “T-shirt” in popular culture came from author F. Scott Fitzgerald in his 1920 novel This Side of Paradise.

That surprised me.

The idea that something now hanging in nearly every closet in America once sounded modern enough to appear as fresh terminology in literature is hard to imagine today.

The Dockworker Theory

There is also an older and far less accepted theory that similar garments called “tea shirts” were worn by dockworkers as far back as the late 1600s. Some believe the term gradually evolved into “T-shirt.”

Most historians, however, still point back to the military undershirt and the shirt’s unmistakable shape as the true origin.

From Underwear to American Icon

What fascinates me most is how something designed simply as underwear became a cultural symbol.

The T-shirt went from military practicality to factory wear, then to rebellion, fashion, concerts, politics, advertising, and self-expression. It became a billboard for causes, rock bands, opinions, humor, memories, and identity itself.

person wearing white and red nirvana top

Everybody owns one.

Rich or poor.
Young or old.
Farmer, mechanic, teacher, police officer, celebrity, or kid riding a bicycle down a dusty street in summer.

The T-shirt may be one of the few pieces of clothing that truly belongs to everybody.

And all these years later, most of us never once stopped to ask why it was called that.

Sometimes the most interesting stories are hidden inside the most ordinary things.



Benjamin Groff II
Groff Media © Truth Endures

When the Game Never Stops: Winning Elections in an Era of Constant Disruption

If the rules keep changing, the answer isn’t outrage—it’s preparation.

© Benjamin H. Groff II — Truth Endures / benandsteve.com


There’s a growing frustration across the country, and it’s not hard to understand why.

Every election cycle seems to come with its own storm—court challenges, last-minute legislation, disputes over procedures, and loud claims designed to shake confidence in the process itself. From judges to election workers, from statehouses to social media, the noise never seems to stop.

So the question becomes simple, and fair:

How do you win when the game is constantly being interrupted?

The answer isn’t as dramatic as the problem—but it’s far more effective.


Win Bigger Than the Noise

Close elections invite chaos. That’s just the truth.

When margins are razor-thin, every ballot becomes a battlefield—every recount, every legal challenge, every procedural delay suddenly matters more than it should.

The simplest, most overlooked strategy is this:

Win by enough that the noise doesn’t matter.

That means turnout. It means organization. It means showing up long before Election Day and staying engaged long after.

Because a decisive outcome is the hardest thing to distort.


The Real Battlefield Isn’t the Headlines—It’s the Process

Most people watch elections through a television screen. But elections aren’t decided there.

They’re decided in:

  • County offices 
  • Polling locations 
  • Courtrooms 
  • Administrative rulebooks 

That’s where the real work happens.

Groups like the Brennan Center for Justice and coalitions such as Election Protection focus on something most people never see: the infrastructure of democracy itself.

Because here’s the truth most don’t want to say out loud:

If you’re not paying attention to the process, you’re already behind.


Stop Reacting. Start Anticipating.

Misinformation thrives in confusion.

Delayed results? Suspicion.
Legal disputes? Distrust.
Unfamiliar procedures? Panic.

The solution isn’t just correcting false claims after they spread—it’s preparing people before they do.

Explain the process.
Set expectations.
Tell the truth early, clearly, and often.

Because when people understand what’s happening, they’re far less likely to be manipulated by what isn’t.


Courts Matter—But They’re Not the Strategy

Yes, the courts are part of modern elections.

They always have been.

But they are not a substitute for winning.

A courtroom can delay an outcome. It can shape a rule. It can even decide a narrow dispute.

But it cannot replace the fundamental truth of democracy:

Votes still matter more than arguments.


Local Matters More Than You Think

One of the strengths—and frustrations—of the American system is how decentralized it is.

There isn’t one election. There are thousands.

And that cuts both ways.

It means no single disruption can take down the entire system.
But it also means the work has to be done everywhere—not just at the top.

County clerks matter.
Election workers matter.
State officials matter.

Ignoring those roles is how systems get shaped without you.


Let’s Be Clear About Something

Not every delay is corruption.
Not every challenge is sabotage.
Not every rule change is an attack.

Some of it is simply the messy, imperfect reality of a democratic system under pressure.

And if everything is treated like a crisis, then nothing is understood clearly.

Credibility matters.
Facts matter.
Clarity matters.

Because if you lose those, you lose the argument before it even begins.


The Real Strategy Moving Forward

If elections feel chaotic, the answer isn’t to match chaos with more chaos.

It’s to build something stronger than it.

  • Show up early 
  • Organize locally 
  • Support the people running the system 
  • Communicate clearly 
  • And most importantly—win decisively 

Because the strongest defense against disruption isn’t outrage.

It’s preparation.


Closing

We are living in a time where trust is tested, systems are strained, and patience is thin.

But the foundation hasn’t changed.

The system only works if people stay in it.
It only holds if people understand it.
And it only endures if people are willing to defend it—not just with words, but with action.

Truth doesn’t shout. It stands.
And in the end—Truth Endures.


Groff Media ©2026 benandsteve.com Truth Endures

They Call It Help. Others Call It Control. Louisiana’s Homeless Bill Raises Hard Questions.

Groff Media ©2026 benandsteve.com Truth Endures


A new bill in Louisiana aims to address homelessness through enforcement and court-directed programs. Supporters call it a pathway to services. Critics warn it could blur the line between help and coercion. This piece breaks down what the law actually says—and why it raises deeper questions about how we treat the most vulnerable among us.

There is a bill moving through Louisiana right now that deserves more than a passing glance. It deserves attention—clear-eyed, fact-based, and unflinching.

Because beneath the political talking points, something real is happening.

Louisiana lawmakers have advanced a measure—commonly referenced as Louisiana House Bill 211 (2026)—that targets public camping and similar activities often associated with homelessness.

In plain terms:

  • Sleeping or camping in certain public spaces could become a criminal offense
  • Violations can lead to fines or jail time
  • Courts may direct individuals into structured programs or services as part of sentencing or diversion 

Supporters argue this is about restoring order and connecting people with help. That is the stated intent.

And that part is factual.

Where this bill becomes controversial is not in what it says outright—but in how it operates in practice.

Critics—advocates, legal observers, and community groups—raise concerns that:

  • The “choice” between jail and programs may not feel like a choice at all 
  • Court-directed participation in treatment or services could function as coercion under threat of punishment
  • Individuals may face financial obligations tied to those programs, depending on how they are administered 

Those concerns are not invented—but they are also not fully settled facts across all interpretations of the bill.

They are warnings about what this kind of policy can become.

And history tells us those warnings are not without precedent.

There is a difference between:

  • Offering help
    and 
  • Mandating compliance under penalty of jail

That line matters.

Because once a person’s existence—where they sleep, where they sit, where they try to survive—becomes criminalized, the system is no longer just offering assistance.

It is enforcing behavior.

Let’s be precise, because precision matters:

  • It is true this bill criminalizes certain public behaviors tied to homelessness 
  • It is true it allows courts to impose penalties, including jail 
  • It is true it routes individuals into structured programs 

It is not clearly established, based on current verified reporting, that:

  • People will universally be billed in a way that leads directly to punitive labor arrangements 
  • Or that “forced unpaid labor” exists as a clearly defined, direct provision of the bill itself 

Those claims are circulating—but they are interpretations and projections, not confirmed statutory facts.

And if we care about truth, we separate what is known from what is feared.

Even stripped down to verified facts, the question does not go away.

It becomes sharper.

What does it say about us if the primary tool we use to address homelessness is the criminal code?

What does it mean when the path to “help” runs through a courtroom?

And what happens when the least among us are told:

Comply—or face punishment.

You don’t have to exaggerate this bill to be troubled by it.

You don’t have to stretch facts to ask hard questions.

Because even at its most neutral reading, this legislation represents a shift—
from compassion offered freely
to compliance enforced by law.

And that is a line worth watching.

Closely.


© Benjamin H. Groff II — Truth Endures / benandsteve.com

Paid to Spy: When Infiltrating a Group Is Legal… and When It Isn’t

By Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026


WASHINGTON — The Southern Poverty Law Center was indicted Tuesday April 21st, 2026 on federal fraud charges alleging it improperly raised millions of dollars to pay informants to infiltrate the Ku Klux Klan and other extremist groups, acting Attorney General Todd Blanche said.

The Justice Department alleges the civil rights group defrauded donors by using their money to fund the very extremism it claimed to be fighting, with payments of at least $3 million between 2014 and 2023 to people affiliated with the Ku Klux Klan, the United Klans of America, the National Socialist Party of America and other extremist groups.

“The SPLC was not dismantling these groups. It was instead manufacturing the extremism it purports to oppose by paying sources to stoke racial hatred,” Blanche said.

You can read NPR’s Article Here.


Law enforcement does this regularly.

Police departments and federal agencies pay:

  • Informants
  • Undercover officers
  • Cooperating witnesses

They send people into criminal organizations to gather information, build cases, and prevent crimes.

That part? Completely legal.


The law draws a very clear boundary.

Authorities are allowed to:

  • Watch
  • Listen
  • Document
  • Blend in

That’s where a concept called entrapment comes in.


In Jacobson v. United States, the government spent over two years trying to convince a man to commit a crime.

They didn’t just observe him—they pushed him.

They sent repeated messages.
They applied pressure.
They nudged him toward a decision he hadn’t made on his own.

Eventually, he gave in.

The Supreme Court stepped in and said: That’s not justice—that’s manufacturing a crime.

The conviction was overturned.


Here it is, as simple as it gets:

  • Legal: Infiltrating a group that is already doing something illegal
  • Illegal: Pushing someone to commit a crime they weren’t already going to commit

That’s the dividing line.


This is where things get more dangerous—and more likely illegal.

If a private individual or organization pays someone to infiltrate a group, problems can stack up quickly:

  • Lying to gain access can become fraud
  • Recording people can violate privacy laws
  • Gathering information can cross into harassment or surveillance
  • Encouraging wrongdoing can turn into conspiracy

In short:
What law enforcement can legally do under rules and oversight, private individuals usually cannot.


We live in a time where people are suspicious.
Of institutions.
Of politics.
Of each other.

Stories about infiltration—real or imagined—spread quickly because they tap into that distrust.

But the law hasn’t changed as much as the conversation has.

The same basic principle still applies:


Paying someone to infiltrate a group is not automatically illegal.

But the moment that infiltration turns into:

  • Pressure
  • Manipulation
  • Or manufactured crime

…it crosses a line the courts have been very clear about.

And once that line is crossed, the case—and sometimes the credibility of those behind it—falls apart.


Selective Outrage Is Killing Accountability

The Rules Change—Depending on Who Breaks Them

Groff Media ©2026 benandsteve.com Truth Endures


When allegations hit Eric Swalwell, the reaction is immediate.

There isn't the same ethics being applied.
Eric Swalwell Hit With Double Standard

Cameras. Headlines. Demand

Resign. Investigate. Answer now!

That’s the system working—at least on the surface.

But step back—and the pattern becomes impossible to ignore:

The standard isn’t consistent. It’s conditional.


The Timeline They Don’t Want Side by Side

2026 — Swalwell

  • Allegations surface
  • Immediate national attention
  • Calls for resignation begin almost instantly

👉 Expectation set: Allegations alone demand action.


2024–Present — Matt Gaetz

  • Federal investigation tied to serious allegations
  • No charges filed; denies wrongdoing
  • Remains in office, politically active

👉 Reality: Survived the storm.


2025–Present — Cory Mills

Cory Mills
Cory Mills
  • Ethics scrutiny reported
  • Limited sustained national pressure
  • No decisive congressional action

👉 Reality: Investigation without urgency.


2022 — Tom Reed

  • Accused of misconduct
  • Resigned

👉 Reality: Consequence matched expectation.


Recent Cycles — Tony Gonzales

  • Personal controversy surfaces
  • Steps away politically
  • Little sustained national reckoning

👉 Reality: Quiet exits don’t trigger loud accountability.


Go Back Further—The Pattern Was Already There

This isn’t new. It didn’t start this year. Or last year.

Dennis Hastert

  • Long after leaving office, it was revealed he had sexually abused minors decades earlier
  • Served prison time—but only after financial crimes exposed the cover-up

👉 Reality: Power delayed accountability for years.


Mark Foley

  • Resigned in 2006 after explicit messages to congressional pages
  • Questions followed about who knew—and how long it was ignored

👉 Reality: Action came—but only after exposure became unavoidable.


Roy Moore

  • Accused of sexual misconduct involving minors during his campaign
  • Lost election—but retained strong political backing

👉 Reality: Allegations alone didn’t collapse support.


Jim Jordan

Jim Jordan
  • Accused by former athletes of ignoring abuse while a wrestling coach
  • Denied wrongdoing
  • Remains in Congress with no formal consequence

👉 Reality: Allegations alone didn’t trigger removal.


Now Step Back and Look at It Clearly

CLICK ON IMAGE FOR REPORT

Across years. Across headlines. Across parties.

The pattern repeats:

  • Some accusations trigger immediate political collapse
  • Others linger, fade, or get absorbed into the noise
  • Some careers end overnight
  • Others continue uninterrupted

Same system. Different outcomes.


The Truth Voters Are Starting to Accept

This isn’t about one politician.
It isn’t even about one party.

It’s about a system where:

  • Outrage is selective
  • Pressure is strategic
  • Accountability is inconsistent

And once people see that clearly, something changes.

They stop reacting to the scandal.

They start questioning the system behind it.


Accountability Cannot Be Conditional

If the rule is:

“Allegations demand immediate scrutiny and consequences”

Then that rule must apply:

  • Every time
  • To everyone
  • Without exception

Because the moment it doesn’t—

It stops being accountability.


Final Word — The Line That Matters

This isn’t about defending Eric Swalwell.

It’s about whether the same fire lit under him
burns just as hot under everyone else.

Because if it doesn’t—

Then what we’re watching isn’t justice.
It isn’t integrity.
And it sure isn’t leadership.

It’s performance.
It’s protection.
It’s power deciding when truth matters.


Truth Endures

Not because politicians defend it.
Not because parties protect it.

But because, eventually—
people see it for themselves
!

There should be resignations coming from more than just Democrats!

Truth Endures!


© Benjamin H. Groff II — Truth Endures / benandsteve.com Groff Media

Oklahoma’s Political Shift Isn’t Just Numbers — It’s the Loss of Local Control

By Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026


Oklahoma election officials report that as many as 13,000 registered voters have changed their political affiliation in recent months—many moving from Republican to Democrat or Independent. On paper, it looks like a routine shift. But beneath those numbers is something much deeper—and far more concerning.

Because Oklahoma hasn’t just changed parties over the years. It has lost its voice.

Carl Albert

There was a time when this state was overwhelmingly Democratic, but more importantly—it was locally driven. Communities knew their candidates. Campaigns were built in barbershops, cafés, and courthouse hallways—not in distant boardrooms. Leaders rose from the people they represented. Even figures like Carl Albert carried Oklahoma values with them to Washington, not the other way around.

Back then, politics wasn’t perfect—but it was personal.

Southeastern Oklahoma—“Little Dixie”—held strong Democratic roots that reflected the culture and working-class backbone of the region. Even in places like Tulsa and the northeast, where conservatism had a firmer grip, the political identity was still shaped by local influence, local relationships, and local accountability.

That began to change when money entered the room—and never left.

Over time, national political machines and out-of-state interests realized something: Oklahoma was fertile ground. Campaigns stopped being about neighbors convincing neighbors. They became about funding streams, media buys, consultants, and narratives crafted far beyond state lines. The candidates may still live here—but the strategies, the messaging, and often the priorities do not.

Even towns like Elk City, Oklahoma remember a time when national figures still spoke directly to local communities. Jimmy Carter built much of his campaign on that very idea—making personal promises and treating small towns like they mattered. And when he became President, he was known for keeping those commitments, returning to places others might have forgotten.

That kind of connection is hard to imagine today.

When Carter passed, the coverage—especially at the local level—felt noticeably quiet in places where, years ago, a visit like his would have been remembered and retold. Maybe that’s time passing. Or maybe it says something more about where we are now—where national politics has grown louder, more divided, and more distant from the very communities it once depended on. And maybe it says more about the community’s morals.

And that’s the real shift.

It’s not Republican versus Democrat. It’s local versus national control.

What we’re witnessing now—even in something as simple as voter registration changes—is the continued unraveling of a system that once belonged to the people who lived here. The decisions that affect Oklahoma communities are increasingly influenced by voices that have never set foot on our streets, never sat in our cafés, and never had to answer directly to the people they impact.

Oklahoma didn’t just evolve politically. It was overtaken.

And the question now isn’t which party wins next.
It’s whether the people of this state will ever truly get their voice back. Even more importantly, will the people of Oklahoma ever stand and take their voice back!


WHITE HOUSE ORDERS REMOVAL OF ALL D.C. CHERRY TREES; TEXAS TO ASSIST WITH DISPOSAL

Reaction on Capitol Hill was swift—and, at times, confused.

By: B.H.Groff II Groff Media 2026


WASHINGTON, D.C. — In a move that has surprised residents, historians, and seasonal tourists alike, the White House has issued an executive directive calling for the immediate removal of all cherry trees within the District of Columbia.

According to preliminary details released late Monday evening, the plan calls for the trees—long associated with the city’s springtime identity—to be cut down and processed for transport out of the nation’s capital.

Administration officials described the decision as part of a broader “landscape reassessment initiative,” though specifics surrounding the timing and necessity of the removal remain unclear.

“We’re clearing them out. Making room for more air and real estate!”

“This is about taking a fresh look at long-standing traditions and evaluating their place in a modern framework,” one official said, speaking on condition of anonymity. “No element, no matter how iconic, is exempt from review.”

The cherry trees, many of which trace their origins to a 1912 gift from Japan, have been a defining feature of Washington’s Tidal Basin and surrounding areas for more than a century. Each year, the blossoms draw visitors from around the world during peak bloom.

Despite their cultural significance, crews have reportedly already begun staging equipment near key locations, with early removal efforts expected to begin within days.


TEXAS TO PLAY KEY ROLE IN DISPOSAL

In an unexpected interstate partnership, officials confirmed that the State of Texas has agreed to assist in the disposal process.

Under the arrangement, National Guard units from Texas would be deployed to Washington to process the felled trees, converting them into wood chips for transport back to the state.

Sources familiar with the plan say the material is expected to be repurposed for use in large-scale outdoor cooking operations, particularly during football season.

“We understand Texas has both the capacity and the appreciation for this kind of resource,” one official noted. “They see it as a practical solution.”

Texas officials have not released a formal statement but are said to be “fully prepared” to mobilize personnel once federal clearance is finalized.

“The Cherry Trees changed into woodchips would be perfect for smoking meats at football tailgate parties”

“The Cherry Trees changed into woodchips would be perfect for smoking meats at football tailgate parties” according to Texas officials.


CONGRESS WEIGHS IN

Reaction on Capitol Hill was swift—and, at times, confused, as lawmakers attempted to clarify both the intent and implications of the proposed cherry tree removal.

“It goes toward the whole DUI thing,” said one longtime, hood-covered House member, before being quietly corrected by a senator who clarified it was DEI—Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion.

“We don’t have to have cherry trees for equality,” the senator added, “but they are nice for flavoring vodka.”

Another lawmaker expressed frustration with the annual bloom. “These white flowery things get everywhere,” he said. “It’s a damn mess if you get a bunch of them in your hair.”

Not all were in favor of the removal.

“You know how bad this place is going to smell without them?” one visibly irritated member asked. “At least the trees covered up some of it.”

One senior committee chair, speaking in a tone usually reserved for matters of national security, offered a more technical justification.

“Cherry trees create a false sense of seasonal stability,” he said. “When citizens begin to expect predictable blooming cycles, it undermines our broader messaging on uncertainty. Removing them restores balance.”

While no formal vote has yet been scheduled, sources indicate bipartisan discussions are ongoing, with several members privately acknowledging they were unaware the trees were not, in fact, native to Texas.


PUBLIC REACTION MIXED

Residents and visitors expressed a range of reactions as news of the directive spread.

“I don’t know what Washington looks like without them,” said one local resident near the Tidal Basin. “It’s like taking away spring.”

“I don’t know what Washington looks like without them,” said one local resident near the Tidal Basin. “It’s like taking away spring.”

Tourism officials are reportedly monitoring the situation closely, with some expressing concern over the potential economic impact if the trees are removed before peak bloom.

Others, however, appeared less concerned.

“They’re just trees,” one passerby said. “I’m more worried about parking.”

IMPLEMENTATION TIMELINE UNCLEAR

Federal agencies have yet to release a detailed timeline for the project, though internal memos suggest the work could begin as early as this week.

Environmental groups have not yet issued formal responses, but several advocacy organizations indicated they are reviewing the directive.

As crews prepare for what could be one of the most visible changes to the city’s landscape in decades, officials continue to emphasize that the effort is part of a broader evaluation of federal properties.

No official cost estimate has been released.

FINAL NOTE

Officials confirmed the directive will take effect at midnight on April 1st.

One senator from Texas is reportedly backing the measure with a special addendum, citing concerns he said arose during a recent winter vacation to Cancun. According to the senator, a video he viewed on YouTube suggested the original cherry trees—gifted by Japan in 1912—may have been engineered with embedded surveillance capabilities.

“Given what we now know,” he stated, “it would be irresponsible not to take a closer look.”

In the end, the cherry trees remain—and so does the tradition of April Fools’ Day.

“Trump may be first U.S. President to mythically cut down a cherry tree since George Washington,” top aide says!

*No trees were harmed in the making of this report—only expectations. Happy April Fools’ Day.


EDITOR’S NOTE: The “Final Note” in this story tells you this piece is satire—but in today’s climate, it doesn’t feel nearly as far-fetched as it should. As you move through the rest of the year, keep this in mind. We are living in a time when reality often outpaces even our most exaggerated imagination.

Benjamin


By Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026


A Story I Picked Up From The Surfing The Web About A Man Helping His Wife Through Labor…

By Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026


A man rushed his very pregnant wife to the hospital as her labor pains began.

After examining her, the doctor looked up with a serious expression.
“This is going to be a difficult delivery,” he said. “But… there is an experimental choice.”

The couple leaned in.

“There’s a machine,” the doctor explained, “that can transfer a part of the mother’s pain to the father. It would significantly reduce what she feels during labor.”

Without hesitation, the husband said, “Hook me up.”

The doctor raised a cautious finger.


“There’s one small issue… a flaw in the mechanism. The pain transferred to you is amplified—up to ten times stronger than what she experiences. If it becomes too much, you must tell me at once.”

The husband nodded confidently. “I can handle it.”

The machine was connected.

The doctor started at 10%.

“How do you feel?” he asked.

“Honestly?” the husband said. “I don’t feel a thing.”

Curious, the doctor increased it to 30%… then 50%… then 80%.

Still nothing.

The doctor was amazed. He pushed it all the way to 100%. Due to the flaw, this meant the husband was now receiving ten times the full intensity of labor pain.

He stood there calmly.

No grimace.
No flinch.
Not even a bead of sweat.

Meanwhile, his wife delivered the baby with remarkable ease.

The doctor, stunned, turned to the husband.
““I have never seen anything like this in my entire career.”

Proud, the couple gathered their newborn and headed home, marveling at what had just happened.

But when they arrived…

There, on the front doorstep…

Lay the mailman.

Dead.

I am only retelling this story. I am not responsible for the contents. Just for the ending. Which I had nothing to do with.

The End.


Groff Media ©2026 benandsteve.com Truth Endures

Something To Ponder…

By Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026

Today I wanted to leave something less hard hitting. Just a word or two to get the mental juices flowing like this first piece. Asking you what are the differences between the dogs and cats? I am hoping for some humor, serious, or even oddball statements to be posted. Next, is a piece I a pulling from my memoir and sharing with you. Just a piece of what I have been working on. It details One Decision That Completely Changed The Course Of My Life.


The Difference Between Dogs And Cats

What you leave today becomes someone’s answer tomorrow.

What is one small decision you made that completely changed the course of your life?

One small decision that completely changed the course of my life began with a simple answer:

“Sure… that sounds like fun.”

In 1982, a new friend asked if I wanted to ride along with him to Oklahoma City—about 200 miles away. His boss’s son needed a ride home after church the next day. He preferred not to make the drive alone. It sounded like nothing more than an overnight trip. A little road time. A small adventure.

Nothing important.

Just a ride.

But life has a habit of hiding its biggest turning points inside the smallest moments.

That night—October 23, 1982—something quietly shifted in my world. During that overnight stay, Steve and I discovered something in each other neither of us had planned for or expected. In the span of a single evening, two truths suddenly came into focus.

First, I had met the person I would spend the rest of my life with—Steve, my husband today.

Second, I understood something about myself that had never fully made sense before. I realized I was part of the LGBTQ community, something that had been quietly waiting for its moment of clarity.

Had I declined that invitation, or simply stayed home, my life would almost certainly have followed a very different road.

Instead, that one small “yes” set everything else in motion.

And it all became unmistakably clear with one simple kiss. In that moment, a clarity I had never known suddenly appeared. Life began making sense in ways it never had before. The confusion, the questions, the quiet sense that something was missing—all of it suddenly fell into place.

I had finally found what my heart had been searching for.

All because of a simple invitation.

All because I said yes.

And sometimes, when I think back on it, I realize something else.

The most important journey of my life began with a 200-mile ride I almost didn’t take.

A Note to Our Readers: Looking Ahead to a New Journey

https://cdn.britannica.com/72/189672-050-EC848109/Aerial-view-Grosser-Tiergarten-skyline-Berlin-Germany.jpg

By Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026

2–3 minutes

A journey is beginning, not yet fully mapped.
We wanted to share where our thoughts are headed next.


Some plans start as ideas, not itineraries.
This is one of those moments.

Steven And Benjamin

I wanted to share a brief but meaningful update with those of you who read, follow, and support this site. Over the years, this space has become more than a place to publish stories—it has become a point of connection. Because of that, it feels right to let you know something. We are quietly and thoughtfully planning it for the months ahead.

https://pct-wp-prod.storage.googleapis.com/2024/03/13101932/dsc8548up-edit.jpg

My husband and I have started planning. We are in the early stages of what we hope will be a once-in-a-lifetime trip to Europe. At this stage, everything is tentative and flexible, but the intention is sincere. Our route would take us from Phoenix to Salt Lake City. We would then travel to New York. Next, we would cross the Atlantic to Amsterdam, and continue on to Berlin. From there, we hope to spend time traveling through Germany. We also plan to visit neighboring countries. Prague is one place high on our list.

https://www.jacadatravel.com/_next/image/?q=100&url=https%3A%2F%2Fcdn.jacadatravel.com%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2Fbis-images%2F477813%2FBavaria-AdobeStock_125534945-3200x1800-f50_50.jpg&w=3840

The time-frame we are considering is September, though no dates are locked in yet. This trip is not about just checking destinations off a list. It’s more about slowing down. We want to see places with intention and appreciate the history, culture, and everyday life of the regions we visit. Germany, in particular, feels like a place where time deserves to be taken. This is true whether in cities, small towns, or the countryside in between.

This isn’t an announcement—just a looking ahead.
A few early plans, and an open door for conversation
.

https://goeasyberlin.de/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/Brandenburger-Tor-facebook-e1480504772406.jpg

The journey brings one of the most meaningful hopes. It is the possibility of meeting people I’ve come to know through writing over the years. Words have a way of building bridges, and in some cases, those connections feel more like extended family than acquaintances. If you are in or near Berlin, Prague, or Amsterdam, I would genuinely welcome your thoughts. I would also appreciate your insights if you know those places well.

https://www.sociallifeproject.org/content/images/2022/04/Amsterdam_Netherlands_ek_Sep09-174-2.jpg

If you have advice on places that shouldn’t be missed, I would be grateful to hear them. Share routes worth taking or quieter corners that offer something special. Practical tips for traveling through these areas are also welcome. And if our paths happen to cross along the way, that would be a gift in itself.

https://i0.wp.com/www.travelworldmagazine.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/11/riding_rails_europe.jpg

More details will come as plans take shape. For now, this is simply a look ahead. We invite you to share your thoughts, insights, and recommendations in the comments below.

By Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026

Groff Media ©2026 benandsteve.com Truth Endures


Your Voice Matters: What’s the Most Disappointing Part of 2026 So Far?

Groff Media ©2026 benandsteve.com Truth Endures

1–2 minutes

We’re only at the beginning of 2026, yet many of us already feel the weight of events unfolding around us. Some disappointments are loud and public, others quieter and deeply personal. They come from headlines. Leadership is a source. Disappointments arise from a loss of trust. It is simply the sense that we keep revisiting the same struggles under new names.

This space isn’t about arguments or absolutes—it’s about honest reflection. Your perspective matters here, whether it’s something global or something close to home. Sometimes naming a concern is the first step toward understanding it.

6 responses to “Your Voice Matters: What’s the Most Disappointing Part of 2026 So Far?”

What you leave today becomes someone’s answer tomorrow.

1963: A Year Between Heartbreak and Hope

The Year Many Were Born And The World That Shaped It

By Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026 

2–3 minutes

A topic came up recently about naming the most interesting—or most defining—events from the year you were born. For me, that year was 1963, which was sixty-two years ago. It was a year that carried an unusual weight, filled with moments of deep loss alongside remarkable progress and hope.

For fans of country music, 1963 was especially heartbreaking. In March, a plane crash claimed the lives of Patsy ClineHawkshaw HawkinsCowboy Copas, and Cline’s manager. Just a few months later, another aviation accident occurred. It took the life of Jim Reeves, one of the genre’s most beloved voices. The sorrow didn’t end there. Jack Anglin, one half of the duo Johnny & Jack, was killed in a car accident. He was driving to attend Patsy Cline’s memorial service. In a matter of months, country music lost several of its brightest stars, leaving a lasting scar on the industry.

Nationally, the year is most remembered for tragedy. President John F. Kennedy was assassinated in Dallas, Texas, an event that stunned the nation and the world. Two days later, the man accused of the assassination, Lee Harvey Oswald, was himself shot and killed. Oswald’s murder caught on live television by the shooter Jack Ruby, a Dallas nightclub owner. Because both men died before standing trial, no jury verdict was ever rendered regarding the assassination itself. While the Warren Commission later concluded that Oswald and Ruby acted alone, lingering questions have remained for decades.

There has also been confusion surrounding Jack Ruby’s legal fate. Ruby was convicted of murder with malice in March 1964 and sentenced to death, but that conviction did not stand. In October 1966, the Texas Court of Criminal Appeals overturned the verdict. The decision was due to excessive pretrial publicity. The court ordered a new trial. Before that retrial could occur, Ruby died on January 3, 1967, from complications related to lung cancer. As a result, no final conviction was in place at the time of his death.

Yet 1963 was not defined by tragedy alone.

Despite its losses, the year was also marked by hope, courage, and meaningful progress. On August 28, Martin Luther King Jr. delivered his “I Have a Dream” speech during the March on Washington. The speech inspired millions. It accelerated the push toward civil rights legislation that would soon follow. In science, Valentina Tereshkova became the first woman in space, orbiting Earth aboard Vostok 6—a milestone celebrated around the globe.

Popular culture flourished as well. The Beatles rose to international fame, bringing a sense of excitement and unity to a generation. Television, animation, and film offered families shared moments of comfort during a rapidly changing time. On the world stage, the United States, the Soviet Union, and the United Kingdom signed the treaty. This treaty was the Partial Nuclear Test Ban Treaty. This treaty represented a hopeful step toward easing Cold War tensions.

Looking back, 1963 stands as a year of contrast—one of profound sorrow and extraordinary progress. It reminds us that even in times of loss, history continues to progress. Resilience and creativity shape it. There is also the enduring hope for something better.


By Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026

Santa’s Mission of Love

This story is pulled from the archives as a celebration for the season edition.

Groff Media 2024© Truth Endures IMDbPro

Presented by benandsteve.com By: Benjamin Groff II©

3–4 minutes

In the heart of a frosty December, Santa Claus sat in his workshop. His eyes scanning the pages of his magical list. It was a heavy year; kindness seemed scarce, and the world became fractured in ways he hadn’t seen before. One town in particular tugged at his heartstrings—Silver Pines, nestled in the Appalachian Mountains. Its beauty hid a darker reality. The LGBTQ+ community, especially gay individuals, faced judgment and outright abuse. Yet, in the face of such adversity, they showed remarkable courage. Letters from people in Silver Pines painted a picture of sorrow, isolation, and a longing yet to be seen.

Santa set down the list with a deep sigh. “No mistakes,” he whispered, stroking his snowy beard. It was a mantra he had held onto since the dawn of time. Every soul was crafted perfectly. Its existence was a thread in the fabric of humanity. His mission was to remind others of this truth.

The night of Christmas Eve was crisp, the air biting but alive with the hum of anticipation. Santa’s sleigh cut through the sky, its bells jingling softly. His bag was lighter than usual. It was not because he carried fewer gifts. His offerings weren’t wrapped in paper this year.

He landed in Silver Pines just past midnight, his boots crunching on the snow-covered streets. Despite the hour, the town was still. He began his journey with his signature magic. He quietly stepped into homes where letters had been written. He spread warmth and comfort to those who needed it most.

At the tiny home, Santa left a handwritten note. Liam and Paul were a gay couple who had faced the brunt of the town’s scorn. It read:

“You are seen. You are loved. You are perfect as you are.”

In another house, a young teen named Oliver found a shimmering snow globe under his tree. He had been wrestling with the fear of coming out. When he shook it, it revealed a rainbow that shimmered against the glass, and inside, a message:

“Your truth is your strength. The world needs your light.”

Throughout the night, Santa wove love into every corner of Silver Pines. He touched the hearts of allies, planting seeds of courage to stand against hatred. He left dreams of acceptance in the minds of those who harbored prejudice. His gifts weren’t toys or trinkets. They were powerful reminders of humanity’s shared essence. Each one carried the potential to transform hearts and minds.

By dawn, the town began to stir. Liam and Paul awoke to find the note, their hearts swelling with hope they hadn’t felt in years. Oliver clutched his snow globe, feeling a new resolve to embrace who he was. The day unfolded slowly. The spirit of Santa’s gifts began to ripple. This ripple ignited a wave of change. This wave would soon engulf the entire town.

People who had once turned away from their neighbors now questioned their biases. Conversations began, tentative at first but growing bolder with time. Acts of kindness, like inviting a marginalized individual to a community event, replaced judgment, and barriers began to crumble.

Santa watched from a distance, his eyes twinkling. The journey wasn’t over—true change would take time—but the seeds had been planted. As he climbed back into his sleigh, he whispered into the cold morning air:

“There are no mistakes in my Father’s design. Love is the gift I give, but it is also the gift you must carry ahead.”

And with that, Santa soared into the sky, his mission not finished but well underway.

“Herbie” ––– The Tiny Christmas Tree Searches For A Family

This story is pulled from the archives as a celebration for the season edition.

Groff Media 2024© Truth Endures IMDbPro

Presented by benandsteve.com By: Benjamin Groff II©

3–4 minutes

In a quiet forest stood a skinny cedar tree, so different from all the others. The tall, majestic cedars around him stretched their lush branches high. In contrast, the little tree looked scrawny. It had sparse needles and a slightly crooked trunk.

People often came to the forest to select the perfect Christmas tree, always passing him by.

The other trees whispered and rustled in the wind, teasing him.

“Look at you, Herbie,”

They said, giving him the nickname that stuck.

“No one’s ever going to want you.”

Herbie tried to stand tall, but he knew they were right. Year after year, Herbie remained as the big, beautiful trees were chosen and taken away. The forest changed around him. He stayed in his lonely spot. He dreamed of what it would feel like to be wanted.

Then, one crisp winter morning, the tree cutters came again, their saws buzzing. Herbie didn’t expect to get noticed, but this time, something different happened. As they cleared their path, one of the workers stopped, scratched his head, and said,

“Well, let’s take this little one, too. Someone might like it.”

Herbie felt the sharp blade cut through his trunk. Before he could fully understand what was happening, he was bundled with the others and taken to the city.

A sea of magnificent Christmas trees surrounded Herbie at the tree lot. Their branches glistened with dew, and they stood tall and proud. Compared to them, Herbie felt even smaller, and his crooked trunk made him look even more awkward.

Shoppers strolled by, admiring the grand trees and taking them home individually. Herbie overheard a nearby pine whisper,

“Face it, Herbie, you’re not cut out for this. No one’s going to pick you.”

The lot grew emptier daily, and Herbie’s hope dwindled. By Christmas Eve, he was the only tree left, standing under the dim glow of a street lamp. The wind whistled through his sparse branches, and Herbie prepared for the inevitable—being tossed away, unloved.

But just as Herbie’s spirits hit their lowest, a tiny voice broke through the cold night air.

“Mama, look! That one’s perfect!”

Herbie lifted his branches slightly in surprise. A little boy with messy hair and bright, eager eyes was pointing at him.

“Are you sure, Tommy?”

His mother asked, crouching beside him,

“This tree is so small. And, well, it’s not exactly full.”

––––

“Exactly!”

Tommy said with a grin.

“It’s different, just like me. We’ll make it the best Christmas tree ever!”

Herbie’s heart soared as Tommy and his mother carefully carried him home. Tommy got to work in their cozy living room, stringing popcorn and cranberries across Herbie’s branches. His mother tucked shiny ornaments into every gap, and finally, they placed a glowing star on top.

Herbie couldn’t believe it. For the first time, he felt truly beautiful. He wasn’t just a funny-looking tree anymore—a Christmas tree.

On Christmas morning, Herbie watched with joy as Tommy tore through his presents, his laughter filling the room. The warmth of the fire danced on Herbie’s branches, and he realized he had never felt so happy.

When the holiday ended, Herbie feared getting thrown out like many trees before him. But instead, Tommy’s family carried him to their backyard.

Tommy said, patting his trunk as they planted him firmly in the soil.

“You’re part of our family now, Herbie,”

Year after year, as Herbie grew taller and fuller, Tommy would decorate him anew, even in the coldest winters.

Herbie learned that it wasn’t about how perfect he looked or how he compared to the other trees. The love and care he received—and gave—made him truly special.

And so, Herbie stood proudly, knowing he would always be part of something wonderful: a family.

Because They Mattered ~ Legacy Lives On

Their Final Chapter Is Not the End

Groff Media ©2025 benandsteve.com Truth Endures

2–3 minutes

In the quiet margins of newspapers, lives flicker out of print. Still, they do not fade out of memory. That is where our magazine steps in. It offers a respectful space for families and community members. They can share and preserve their loved ones’ stories. benandsteve.com believes that every person who mattered deserves more than a line in the obituary section. It doesn’t matter whether they soared in the spotlight or labored in the shadows. They deserve a story that lingers.

At Galaxy8News, a Service of benandsteve.com, we curate the collection Notable Deaths—Gone But Not Forgotten. Our aim is to shine a light on the lives behind the names. We ask the questions no standard notice ever does: What did they believe? What seeds did they plant? Who still carries their echo?

Remembering those who have gone on before.
In State. Gone But Not Forgotten! ~ The Quiet Roll Call of Memory ~ A Place Where Every Life is Honored!

The local teacher’s kindness rippled through generations. The factory worker’s quiet ingenuity saved jobs. Every story reminds us that all lives matter and deserve recognition. Each of them mattered in a way that defies headline fame, and we honor that truth.

When you turn our pages, you are not just scrolling past a date and a funeral notice. You are stepping into a life lived, an unfinished story, and a memory that still speaks. Through these stories, you can feel connected to those who shaped our world in ways that matter deeply to someone.

Join us. Let this edition of Notable Deaths – @ Galaxy8News, a service of benandsteve.com, stand as a testament that we remember — not only the famous, but the faithful. We honor not only the celebrated, but the steadfast. Through meaningful storytelling, we create a space where every life is acknowledged. Each life is valued and preserved. This nurtures a lasting sense of belonging and purpose.

We assure their contributions, their legacy, and their memory are posted. Visit daily to stay connected and informed on the most recent passing’s of those who have departed this world. Their lives mattered, and their stories deserve to be remembered. Bookmark it here! Just remember Galaxy8News, a service of benandsteve.com and Notable Deaths are two different pages. Hosted by the same entity.


By Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2025 

Photo by ASHISH SHARMA on Pexels.com
Don’t Be A Turkey!

Island of Pure Silence – The Couldn’t Breed It Out

By Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2025 

3–4 minutes

They called it Eden’s Key — though nothing about what came next resembled paradise.

Five families pooled their fortunes to buy a remote private island. They were unrelated and united only by ideology. The island is miles from any shipping lane. Their goal was singular and chilling. They wanted to build a bloodline so ‘pure’ it would never produce what they considered deviation. This included homosexuality, bisexuality, transgender identity, or anything that threatened their narrow vision of human perfection.

These pilgrims to the island had checked and rechecked each other’s families. There had been no known, reported, or openly known LGBTQI+ members in any of the families. There had also been no mental healthcare admissions involving anyone belonging to the family trees going to the island. There would have been seven families in total but two families didn’t pass the bloodline background. The group was made up of a doctor, chemist, preacher, farmer, carpenter, and a dentist. The plan was for each profession and trade to pass these skills to children. Children who were to be born into families on the island.

They constructed homes of pale stone and imported perfect soil for perfect gardens. Children were raised with strict doctrine. They were taught that love came only in prescribed forms. Anything else was seen as a contamination from a broken world.

And for the first generation, it appeared to work.

The island thrived. Crops grew. Marriages were arranged. Babies were born. And the elders congratulated one another on their success, believing they had outwitted nature itself.

But nature is patient.

Subtle fractures began to surface by the time the third generation came of age. There were lingering glances. Forbidden letters were exchanged. Hands brushed too long in passing. Whispers floated through palm-lined walkways. A daughter cried in secret over feelings she did not understand. A son locked himself in his room for hours. He stared at the ocean, hoping it can answer questions no one else can.

The Council called it sickness.

They tightened rules. Curfews sharpened. Surveillance increased. Shame became the island’s true currency.

Each new generation revealed an undeniable truth. The same percentage of LGBTQI+ identities emerged as existed beyond their shores. The very diversity they sought to erase bloomed organically within their controlled experiment.

The elders gathered in panic, pouring over family trees and blood records, searching for a contaminant that did not exist. The realization crept in slowly and bitterly — they had not escaped the world. They had recreated it.

And worse, they had bred it themselves.

Years later, a young woman named Elia stood on the highest ridge of the island. She held the hand of another girl. Both were trembling. Both were defiant. They were not sick. They were not broken. They were simply human. The ocean wind tangled their hair as the sounds of distant arguments echoed below.

“We were never the disease,” Elia whispered. “Fear was.”

When the first boats began to arrive — outsiders, journalists, doctors, activists — the island’s mythology unraveled. The story of Eden’s Key became a caution whispered across the world. It reminds us that identity can’t be engineered out of humanity.

The families who once prized isolation now faced the same reckoning their ancestors had tried so desperately to avoid.

And from the ruins of control rose a new truth, written not in doctrine but in courage:

You can’t uproot what lives in the soul.

Somewhere on that windswept island, between salt air and forgiveness, a generation finally chose love over fear. In doing so, they found a freedom their founders never imagined possible.


By Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2025 

97-Year-Old Country Doctor Delivers 14 Miracle Babies in Small Town Meadowview

A Golden Story Repost From 2024

5–8 minutes

A Story By: Benjamin Groff© Groff Media 2024© Truth Endures


The town coroner was also the same man who delivered most of the people’s babies in town. He was nearly 97 years old and still doing business. His name was Dr. Doodley. Dr. Doodley began working as a doctor when he graduated from Medical School at age thirty in 1957. He made his home in Meadowview. He had a significant other. He was a gentleman Dr. Doodley had met in college. Together, they raised Dr Doodley’s two nephews. They were the sons of Dr. Doodley’s brother, who got killed in an auto accident along with his wife. The community never questioned the couple’s union. They never questioned the children raised by the two men. Everyone welcomed the couple as they joined in events.

Dr. Doodley was the only doctor in the county. He was on call twenty-four hours a day. He would be available seven days a week. With such a schedule, it was common for the family only to see the older family member on the go. He was known for delivering nearly every child in the county for over 70 years. In as much, he declared dead nearly everyone who passed away in the county. This spanned the past 71 years. He had brought into the world and seen many of the same people leave it. He was known to many as an indirect member of their family for his declarations.

On a foggy Tuesday morning, Dr. Doodley received a call for his services. It was from a lady twelve miles from town. At the home, there was also a man. His wife was gravely ill too. It wasn’t until Dr. Doodley arrived that he discovered two other expecting mothers were present. There was also an older man who appeared about to die.

Dr. Doodley was 97 years old and thought to himself, ––

“I hope I am up to this chore. If all these people require my services, I will have my hands complete.”

A young lady at the home received Dr. Doodley, took his hat, and directed him to the kitchen. She had prepared several pans of hot water, clean towels, and sticks there. Dr. Doodley always required those three things to be available. He liked to have hot water for cleaning. Towels for drying and sticks for placing in people’s mouths to bite down on and grit through pain.

The doctor was known to use the sticks himself on occasion to avoid using curse words when he was stressed.

Mildred was a big lady. She was also Dr. Doodley’s first patient and was expecting twins. Her water had broken, and she was about to deliver. The conditions at the home were not ideal for privacy; there was only one room, and everyone was in it.

Mildred yelled ––

It is happening. They’re coming!

Dr. Doodley crunched his 97-year-old body down while Mildred sisters held her hands, trying to do breathing exercises.

Dr Doodley said to Mildred ––

Honey, you have to push, push like there is no tomorrow.

Mildred yelled ––

I’m trying. They’re fighting.

Dr. Doodley trying to soothe Mildred replied ––

They’re not fighting. They’re just taking their time.

Dr. Doodley smiled and, with a cough, shouted.

Looky here, they are here. Mildred! You did it! You got three! Boy, Girl, Boy!

Mildred, exhausted and sweating, shocked stewed back

What’s that, doc? Did you say Three? I was expecting two. Where is the third one from?

Dr. Doodley smiled and laughed,

Mildred, the third one is from you. You had a little hider in you—what a surprise!

The doctor went to announce the new arrivals to the rest of the family. Upon hearing that Mildred had triplets, two of the older family members dropped dead.

The triplets were the first ever born into the family since the 1800s. It was a blessing of riches for the family to get them. An old Irish family tale had always suggested such. The doctor tried to revive the two family members, but their aged bodies were nonrevivable. So he put on his Coroner hat, declared them dead, and called for the funeral home.

Dr. Doodley turned to the family. He told them their two older family members, Elmer and Magnolia, had passed away. He offered his condolences. As he explained the situation, Mildred’s sister, Ethel, entered labor.

Ethel was bigger than Mildred and only slightly smaller than Minnie, her twin sister, who was also expecting. Neither sister knew what they were expecting. They wanted to keep it a surprise for their families. It was also a surprise for the doctor.

Dr. Doodley barely had time to catch his breath before Ethel’s cries filled the room. With a weary but determined look, he wiped his brow and prepared for the next round. He had seen many things in his 97 years. Yet, he had a feeling that today would be one for the books.

Ethel’s contractions came fast and fierce. Dr. Doodley quickly realized that this delivery would be anything but ordinary. He moved swiftly, calling for more towels and hot water, his voice steady despite the chaos around him.

Ethel, gripping her sister Mildred’s hand, screamed out as the first baby appeared.

“Push, Ethel, just a little more,”

Dr. Doodley encouraged. To his astonishment, another head was crowned instantly after the first.

“Twins!”

He announced, but as he cradled the two newborns, he felt another tiny foot.

“Wait—triplets!”

The room buzzed with excitement and disbelief. But Ethel’s labor still needed to be done. With one final push, a fourth baby emerged, making history in the small town of Meadowview.

“Quadruplets!”

Dr. Doodley gasped, his voice cracking with the thrill of the moment. The room erupted in cheers, even as Minnie, the third sister, began to feel the unmistakable pangs of labor herself.

Dr. Doodley was now running on pure adrenaline. He had delivered quadruplets in his nearly seven decades of practice, but never had he faced such a succession. As Minnie’s labor intensified, he steeled himself for what was to come.

Minnie, the largest of the three sisters, began laboring with a determination that matched her size. The room grew quiet, anticipation thick in the air. The first baby arrived, the second, then the third, and when a fourth followed, the room collectively held its breath.

But Minnie wasn’t done. To the astonishment of all, a fifth baby emerged, followed by a sixth. Dr. Doodley, his hands trembling, delivered each child with care, his heart pounding with the sheer impossibility of it all.

“Six babies!”

He declared, his voice a mix of awe and exhaustion. Minnie lay back, breathless but smiling, as the room buzzed with the excitement of the extraordinary event.

Then in the back of the room a cousin named Sissy screamed ––

Doc I think I need you!

As the doctor walked back to her, he could see she had given partial birth to a child, and he said ––

Oh dear, lets get this corrected, and cleaned up. Lay back and hold your aunts hand while we help you!

And that is when the last baby of the night entered the world.

By the end of that foggy Tuesday, Meadowview had welcomed fourteen new babies. It made history in the sleepy little town.

Dr. Doodley, despite his age, had once again proven why he was the most revered doctor in the county. As he looked at the fourteen newborns swaddled and cooing, he couldn’t help but smile. It was a significant day in the history of Meadowview. An elderly man, nearly a century-old, delivered a miracle. No one would ever forget this event.


By Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2025