Morning Coffee — Don’t Hurry Past Today

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We spend so much time waiting for the next important day that we sometimes overlook the ordinary ones.

By Benjamin Groff II GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026

September 16, 2026


Wednesday has an unusual position in the week.

Monday is the beginning.

Friday is the finish line everybody seems to be watching.

Wednesday is simply standing somewhere in the middle, usually receiving very little attention.

Perhaps that makes it a lot like life.

We spend an enormous amount of time waiting for something else.

Waiting for Friday.

Waiting for vacation.

Waiting for retirement.

Waiting until the weather cools down.

Waiting until the bills are paid.

Waiting until we have more time.

Waiting until life finally settles down enough for us to enjoy it.

Then one day we look behind us and discover that all of those ordinary days we hurried through were life.

They weren’t the space between important moments.

They were the important moments.

The morning when nothing unusual happened.

The dog sleeping nearby.

Someone you love sitting in the next room.

The familiar sound of the coffeemaker finishing its work.

A telephone conversation about absolutely nothing important.

Dinner at the same table.

A sunset you have seen hundreds of times.

Those things rarely announce themselves as memories while they are happening.

But years later, they can become the things we would give almost anything to experience one more time.

That is why perhaps Wednesday deserves a little respect.

It reminds us that the middle matters.

Not every day needs to be memorable.

Not every morning needs a purpose beyond simply being here to experience it.

There is something comforting about an ordinary day.

No emergency.

No terrible telephone call.

No unexpected crisis.

Just another cup of coffee and another sunrise.

We sometimes call that boring.

Maybe we should call it fortunate.

So today, don’t hurry too quickly toward Friday.

Take a look around Wednesday first.

Notice who is sitting beside you.

Notice who calls.

Notice the familiar sounds around your home.

Notice the ordinary things that make your life yours.

Someday you may discover those were the things that mattered most.

Finish your coffee before it gets cold.

Stay in the conversation a little longer.

And don’t be so eager to get to tomorrow that you completely miss today.

Have a peaceful Wednesday.



By Benjamin Groff II GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026


Wednesday may only be the middle of the week—but perhaps the middle deserves more attention. Today’s Morning Coffee is about slowing down long enough to notice your life while you are living it.

Ordinary Things – Chapter Three: Part Six


By Benjamin Groff II GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026

August 4th, 2026


The Coffee Pot Carries More Than Coffee

The old coffee pot had learned something after all these years.

People rarely gathered around it because they needed coffee.

They gathered because they needed each other.

Morning after morning, the familiar aroma drifted through the house, inviting everyone to slow down for just a little while. Before the first sip was taken, there were stories waiting to be told, questions waiting to be asked, and worries waiting to be shared.

The Coffee Pot Remembers
As you cradle your cup of coffee, remember that life is built more by ordinary mornings than extraordinary moments.

The coffee pot listened to them all.

It heard fathers wondering how they would provide for their families.

It heard mothers quietly carrying burdens they never wanted their children to see.

It heard young couples dreaming about homes they hoped to build, and grandparents smiling as they watched another generation begin its journey.

The coffee pot offered no advice.

It couldn’t solve a single problem.

But it noticed something remarkable.

When people gathered around the table with warm cups in their hands, life somehow became a little easier to carry.

Troubles didn’t disappear.

They simply became lighter because they were shared.

Over the years, the coffee pot witnessed tears that no one expected, laughter that filled the kitchen until everyone forgot what had been troubling them, and prayers whispered before the day began.

It watched empty chairs become full again with new faces, and full tables slowly grow quieter as time moved on.

The old coffee pot came to understand that its greatest purpose had never been making coffee.

Its purpose was creating a place where people felt welcome enough to stay.

Maybe that’s why coffee has always tasted a little better when someone else is sitting across the table.

It isn’t the coffee that warms us the most.

It’s the company.

Tomorrow morning, before you hurry off to whatever the day has planned, linger just a little longer.

Someone may need your conversation more than they need another cup of coffee.

Sometimes the greatest gift we can offer another person is simply our presence.

And the old coffee pot has known that all along.


By Benjamin Groff II GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026