Go-go boots, a stack of 45s, and a living room turned dance floor. My sisters did the dancing. I kept the records spinning. Who knew “It’s My Party” would give me a philosophy to carry through life? Pour a cup, folks. There’s another record waiting to drop.
By Benjamin Groff II GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026
October 24, 2026

Good morning, coffee drinkers! Have you ever heard an old song and suddenly remembered an entire room?
Not just the music. The furniture. The people. Even what they were wearing.
For me, it’s my sisters in their go-go boots, dancing across the living room like they had landed a spot on one of those groovy television shows. Meanwhile, I had an important job: keeping the records playing.
Our record player lived inside a gigantic piece of furniture that also housed the speakers and an AM-FM radio. It took up enough room that you might have expected it to sleep overnight guests.
It played three speeds—33⅓, 45, and 78—but the numbers weren’t what interested me. I wanted to load the automatic changer and watch it work. One record finished, another dropped into place, and the show continued.
There were records belonging to my parents and an uncle who lived with us. I never knew exactly whose were whose. Once the grown-ups were gone and we were home from school, ownership became less important than what we wanted to hear next.
My sisters provided the dancing. I provided the entertainment. Whether they appreciated my musical judgment is another story.
There was “L.A. International Airport,” with those big jet engines, and “Galveston” when the mood settled down a little. “Judy’s Turn to Cry” and “Runaway” had their turns, too.
But the one that stuck with me was “It’s My Party.”
I wasn’t particularly concerned with the romantic trouble unfolding in the song. I liked the declaration: it was your party, and if you wanted to cry, you could.
That sounded like a useful policy.
Even as a kid, I could imagine occasions when somebody might really tick me off and I would need to explain that my feelings were my own business. Here was a record doing the explaining for me. All I had to do was put it on.
Of course, childhood gives you only a small preview of the occasions when you might want to invoke that rule.
Life eventually supplies the rest.

Plans fall apart. People disappoint you. Something you thought would last forever ends before you’re ready. And sometimes you’re simply having a rotten afternoon without the energy to pretend otherwise.
On those days, that old song still makes a reasonable argument.
You can have your cry. You can let the record play through. Nobody says you have to be ready to dance just because everybody else is.
What stays with me most, though, is that living room: my sisters dancing, another record waiting to drop, and me enjoying my position as the person in charge of what came next.
I couldn’t have known how often those songs would follow me through life—or how differently I would hear them later.
Fortunately, my Johnny always came back to me.
But now I’m getting into “Judy’s Turn to Cry,” and that’s another record altogether.
Have another sip, folks. I’ll see what’s next on the stack.



