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The Ordinary Things: The Coffee Pot, Chapter 3 Part 4

August 1, 2026July 26, 2026BenjaminLeave a comment

By Benjamin Groff II GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026

August 01, 2026

The Coffee Pot Doesn’t Mind Growing Cold

Theme: Presence.

The coffee pot has learned something over the years.

Fresh coffee is wonderful.

Hot coffee is even better.

But neither one was ever the important part.

There was a time when someone would pour a second cup—not because they wanted more coffee—but because they wanted a little more time.

Nobody looked at a clock.

Nobody hurried toward the next obligation.

The coffee slowly cooled while stories became warmer.

The coffee pot remembers fathers explaining life to sons.

Neighbors stopping by without calling first.

Grandparents laughing at stories everyone had already heard a hundred times.

No one complained that the coffee had gone cold.

Because they weren’t gathered around the coffee.

They were gathered around one another.

Today…

The coffee is kept piping hot.

Travel mugs.

Insulated cups.

Cup warmers.

The coffee stays warm longer than the conversations.

The old coffee pot doesn’t criticize.

It simply remembers a time when people believed another ten minutes together was worth a lukewarm cup.

Perhaps we haven’t become too busy.

Perhaps we’ve simply forgotten that some moments are worth letting the coffee grow cold.

Look around your home. Every ordinary thing has a story. Sometimes, it’s really about us.

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The Ordinary Things Day Four: The Bread Box Hears the Arguments

July 19, 2026July 17, 2026BenjaminLeave a comment

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July 19, 2026

Day Four: The Bread Box Hears the Arguments

The old bread box has heard thousands of conversations.

Some were whispered.

The old bread box isn’t pretending the past was perfect.
It remembers hurt feelings.
It remembers stubbornness.
It remembers doors closing a little harder than necessary.

Some were filled with laughter.

Some were spoken through tears.

And yes…

Some were arguments.

People have always disagreed.

The bread box remembers fathers who thought sons should work harder.

Mothers who believed daughters should be home before dark.

Grandparents who couldn’t understand the younger generation.

Neighbors who debated whose fence belonged where.

Friends who insisted one baseball team was better than another.

The conversations sometimes became spirited.

Voices occasionally grew louder.

Someone might fold their arms.

Another might push back from the table.

For a moment, silence would settle over the room.

Then someone would reach for the butter.

Or ask if anyone wanted another slice of bread.

The conversation would change.

The disagreement remained.

But so did the people.

The bread box never understood why sharing a meal made it easier to share different opinions.

Perhaps it was because people looked into one another’s eyes instead of past them.

Perhaps it was because they remembered there would be another breakfast tomorrow.

Or perhaps they simply believed that a disagreement didn’t have to become a goodbye.

The bread box has noticed something different over the years.

Sometimes people arrive carrying words sharper than kitchen knives.

Sometimes they leave before the bread has even been passed.

Sometimes they win an argument…

But lose a conversation.

The old bread box isn’t pretending the past was perfect.

It remembers hurt feelings.

It remembers stubbornness.

It remembers doors closing a little harder than necessary.

But it also remembers those same doors opening again the next morning.

It remembers apologies quietly spoken over coffee.

It remembers forgiveness arriving before dessert.

Most of all…

It remembers people believing that relationships were worth repairing.

Perhaps the strongest homes were never the ones without disagreements.

Perhaps they were the ones where love stayed seated at the table after the argument had ended.

The bread box has learned something over the years.

Bread has always been sliced.

People don’t have to be.

Look around your home. Every ordinary thing has a story. Sometimes, it’s really about us.

The strongest homes were never the ones without disagreements.

Perhaps they were the ones where love stayed seated at the table after the argument had ended.

The bread box has learned something over the years.

For many bread has always been sliced.

People don’t have to be.

Look around your home. Every ordinary thing has a story. Sometimes, it’s really about us

By Benjamin Groff II GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026

Midnight Drives: A Journey of Freedom and Reflection

February 6, 2025BenjaminLeave a comment

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The Open Road at Midnight

For Jake, the best time of his life wasn’t marked by grand achievements or milestones. It wasn’t a wedding, a promotion, or a once-in-a-lifetime trip. It was far more straightforward—something that came in the quiet hours when the rest of the world seemed to sleep.

He lived for those midnight drives. The highways stretched out before him like ribbons of endless possibility, empty and open beneath the glow of streetlights. There was something sacred in those moments. He would roll the windows down and let the wind rush in. It carried away the day’s weight. The music was always loud—classic rock, country, sometimes blues—whatever fit the night’s mood.

With no destination in mind, Jake would drive. Sometimes, it was the backroads, where the stars shone brighter than the city’s glow. Other times, it was the interstate. The hum of his tires and the engine rhythm became part of the melody.

Those drives were freedom and escape. There were also the rare moments when Jake’s thoughts never became tangled in the past or anxious for the future. He wasn’t Jake, the overworked employee, or the guy who never quite figured things out. He was just a man, a car, the night, and the music.

One night, he pulled onto a deserted stretch of highway. The wind whipped through his hair. Tom Petty’s Runnin’ Down a Dream poured from the speakers. He pressed the gas just a little harder. He felt the weightlessness of it all. He experienced a unique peace. No one was around to remind him of the world’s expectations.

He wished he had bottled that feeling—the weightlessness and possibility. The night seemed to whisper that everything would be okay, even if it wasn’t.

But maybe that was the beauty of it. It wasn’t meant to last forever—just long enough to remind Jake of what it felt like to be alive.