Before You Buy the Promise Again – Stop. And, See What You Have…

By Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026

July 15, 2026

There was a time when buying a loaf of bread was about as controversial as life could become.  

Promises vs. Results.

Politics has become much the same way. Somewhere along the road we stopped asking one simple question:  

Today, mentioning the price of that same loaf can start an argument.

“Did the last promises work?”

Every election season arrives with a fresh collection of guarantees. Taxes will go down. Jobs will multiply. Government will shrink. Crime will disappear. Inflation will be conquered. Our freedoms will be protected. We are assured that prosperity is just one election away.

Then four years pass.

The speeches become campaign commercials. The commercials become memories. And before long, many of us find ourselves hearing nearly the same promises from many of the same people, while somehow convincing ourselves this time the outcome will be different.

Perhaps before accepting another promise, we should compare it with the last one.

What were we told in 2024?

What actually happened?

Not what our favorite television network says happened. Not what social media insists happened. What changed in our own lives?

What happened to grocery prices?

What happened to gasoline?

Could you buy more—or less—with the paycheck you earned?

Did your insurance go up?

Did your property taxes change?

Did your retirement account grow or shrink?

Did your neighborhood become safer?

Those answers are far more valuable than any campaign slogan.

None of this means every promise failed. Governments accomplish some things and fall short on others. The honest voter should be willing to acknowledge both.

That requires something becoming increasingly rare in America—an honest inventory.

The next time someone tells you what tomorrow will look like, don’t begin by looking forward.

Begin by looking backward.

History may not predict the future, but it usually leaves enough footprints to tell us where we’ve already walked.Years ago, neighbors could spend an afternoon arguing over whosesourdough recipe made the better loaf, and everyone still shared a slice afterward.  

Today, mention the price of that loaf—or the politician who promised to make it cheaper—and you may lose a friend before the bread comes out of the oven. That’s unfortunate, because both subjects have something in common. Good bread takes patience, honest ingredients, and careful attention. Good government should require no less.   ––– Benjamin!


By Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026

 

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~ Throughout history there have always been those who stood firm, and those who surrendered their principles for the sake of comfort or fear. Those who exchanged their standards out of weakness and bowed to a tyranny are rarely remembered among the notable. History tends to reserve that honor for those who stood their ground when it mattered most. ~   Benjamin Groff

When a Rainbow Means Safety: Somewhere Beyond the Hatred Lies Hope

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June 30, 2026


Why Pride Month, the rainbow flag, and the simple act of being seen still matter.

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There are moments when people ask a sincere question:

Why is there a Pride Month? Why the rainbow flag? Why all of the celebration?

For many people, the answer is simple.

Because there are still nights when someone leaves a restaurant holding the hand of the person they love and wonders if they will make it home safely.

Recently in the small city of Caldwell, a gay couple, Juan Olvera and Eric Reed, say they were enjoying dinner at a local restaurant when they became the target of homophobic slurs from a group of men. The couple left, hoping to avoid confrontation. Instead, they say they were followed, chased through a parking lot and onto nearby railroad tracks, and assaulted. One man suffered a black eye, cuts, and bruises. The other required stitches after being struck in the face. Police arrested one suspect and filed a misdemeanor battery charge. Idaho law does not currently include sexual orientation among its hate crime protections.

The physical wounds will heal.

The fear takes longer.

Juan Olvera told reporters:

“I literally thought I was going to die.”

Think about that sentence.

Not in a war.

Not while committing a crime.

Not while threatening anyone.

But simply because he was gay.

And that is why Pride exists.


The rainbow flag is not a declaration of superiority.

It is not a political party.

It is not an attack on anyone else’s beliefs.

It is a signal.

It says:

  • I am here.
  • I have survived.
  • I should not have to hide.
  • I deserve to live openly and safely.

For some people, Pride is a parade.

For others, it is a quiet acknowledgment that they made it through years of fear, rejection, ridicule, or violence.

Many older LGBTQ Americans remember when they could lose jobs for being gay.

They remember being denied housing.

They remember police raids on bars.

They remember the terror of the AIDS epidemic.

And yes, they remember the beatings.

The rainbow became a symbol because symbols matter.

Flags matter.

They tell stories.

The American flag tells the story of a nation striving toward liberty.

The rainbow flag tells the story of people striving toward dignity.

Neither promises perfection.

Both represent hope.


This story from Idaho is not offered to inflame anger or divide people further.

It is offered as a reminder.

Behind every Pride flag is a person.

Behind every Pride Month celebration is someone who once wondered whether they would be accepted by their family, their church, their community—or even survive.

Most people, regardless of politics, agree on one thing:

No one should fear violence because of who they are.

No one should be beaten for holding the hand of the person they love.

No one should have to wonder whether tomorrow will bring acceptance or hatred.

That is not a gay issue.

That is a human issue.

And until stories like this become relics of the past rather than headlines of the present, there will continue to be Pride Month.

There will continue to be rainbow flags.

There will continue to be people saying:

We are here. We are your neighbors. We are your family. And we hope one day these reminders are no longer necessary.


Benjamin Groff II
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When Faith and Politics Collide Nay-Sayers Claim James Talarico Is Possessed By An Evil Spirit

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June 15, 2026

When Faith and Politics Collide

James Talarico is a Presbyterian seminarian running for the U.S. Senate in Texas, and his comments about Christianity have ignited a fierce debate.

James Talarico is a Presbyterian seminarian running for the U.S. Senate in Texas

The controversy began after Talarico told comedian and host Stephen Colbert that Jesus never explicitly mentioned abortion or same-sex marriage in the Gospels. The reaction from some conservative commentators was immediate and intense.

Podcaster Benny Johnson accused him of distorting Christianity. A host on Newsmax questioned his interpretation of scripture. Even Riley Moore suggested on a political program that Talarico’s views were spiritually dangerous.

Yet the passages Talarico cites are among the most familiar in the Bible.

In Matthew 22, Jesus summarizes the law with two commands: love God and love your neighbor. In Matthew 25, he speaks of feeding the hungry, clothing the naked, welcoming strangers, caring for the sick, and visiting prisoners.

These are not obscure verses tucked away in scripture. They are central teachings, repeated in sermons, printed on church walls, and taught to generations of Christians.

For Talarico, these passages point toward a simple but profound idea: that society is measured by how it treats those who are vulnerable—the poor, the sick, the imprisoned, and the outsider.

Others disagree with his political conclusions or argue that Christian teachings encompass a broader set of moral issues. That disagreement is not new. American politics has long wrestled with competing interpretations of faith and public life.

What makes this moment notable is how intensely the argument has become personal.

Critics accuse Talarico of misrepresenting Christianity. Supporters argue he is reminding people of teachings they believe have been overshadowed by political battles.

Whatever side one takes, the underlying questions remain:

Who gets to define the role of faith in public life?

What teachings deserve the greatest emphasis?

And can political movements built around religious identity tolerate interpretations that challenge their assumptions?

These are not questions that will be settled in a television interview, a podcast, or a campaign speech.

But they are questions Americans continue to ask.

And the verses themselves remain where they have always been—waiting in the pages of scripture, inviting each reader to decide what they mean and how they should be lived.

Meanwhile –


Ted Cruz said James Talarico isn’t “masculine,” and Talarico answered with a list of what real men never do. The smear came Monday on Fox News, where Cruz declared that if you were making a list of 1,000 adjectives to describe the Texas Democrat, “masculine” would not be one of them, then added that a stiff breeze would blow him over like a feather.
The attack was not a one-off. Since Talarico won the Democratic nomination and pulled ahead of Ken Paxton in the polls, the Republican machine has gone all in on manhood.
Paxton called him “too low-T for Texas.” White House aide Stephen Miller falsely claimed Democrats had nominated “their first transgender senate candidate,” a lie about a man who is neither transgender nor, for the record, the vegan they also keep insisting he is.
None of it touches his actual record. That is the point.
On MS NOW with Jen Psaki on Thursday, Talarico took the question head on, and he answered it with a lawn mower.
He told the story of Mark Talarico, the adoptive father who gave him his last name.
Every Saturday morning, rain or shine, whether he wanted to or not, his dad mowed the family’s lawn. Then, without anyone asking, he walked next door and mowed the lawn of their neighbor, an elderly widow.
He never talked about it. He just did it.
That, Talarico said, is what a man does.
A man takes responsibility. A man upholds his commitments to his family and his neighbors. A man does what’s right even when no one is watching.
Then came the other half. “They don’t lie and cheat their way through life. They don’t sell their soul to the highest bidder. They don’t steal from other people in order to enrich themselves.”
Real men serve others, he said. Weak men serve themselves. And he closed the door on his way out: he doesn’t think Ken Paxton or Ted Cruz are in a position to tell anybody what a real man is.
The list reads differently considering who it was aimed at.
Cruz spent 2016 watching Donald Trump publicly mock his wife’s appearance, then endorsed him and became one of his most loyal soldiers.
When a deadly winter storm froze Texas in 2021, Cruz boarded a flight to Cancun.
Paxton was impeached on bribery and corruption charges by his own Republican colleagues in the Texas House, and his wife filed for divorce last year citing adultery.
Mark Talarico never talked about the widow’s lawn. He just mowed it. Some men do what’s right when no one is watching.

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The Next Political Shift May Not Be Left or Right

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June 12, 2026

What if the biggest force in American politics isn’t ideology, but exhaustion?

“Do They Expect Me To Believe This?”

Every election cycle seems to arrive with the promise that this one will finally settle things.

It never does.

The arguments continue. The accusations continue. The campaigns never seem to end.

And yet, beneath the daily headlines, another possibility may be emerging.

What if the next major political movement in America isn’t driven by the far left or the far right?

What if it is driven by people who are simply tired?

Tired of being angry.

Tired of being told to hate neighbors who vote differently.

“God, he’s doing it again!”

Tired of waking up every morning to discover another crisis demanding immediate outrage.

For nearly a decade, American politics has been fueled by conflict. Political strategists understand something that television networks and social media platforms have learned as well: outrage captures attention.

Anger keeps viewers watching.

Fear keeps voters engaged.

Conflict generates clicks.

But there is evidence that many Americans may be reaching a saturation point.

“Again, with that?”

Poll after poll has shown declining trust in institutions, political parties, media organizations, and government itself. Yet beneath that distrust may be something more important: a desire for normalcy.

History suggests that political pendulums rarely stop at the extremes.

Eventually voters begin looking for stability.

Not excitement.

“AHH! No more pop up political ads!”

Not revolution.

Not constant crisis.

Just stability.

The nation has seen similar periods before. Following years of upheaval, Americans have often sought leaders who promised calm rather than confrontation. Sometimes those leaders succeeded. Sometimes they did not. But the desire itself repeatedly emerged.

Could that happen again?

No one knows.

It just never ends…

Political forecasting has become a risky business. Recent elections have repeatedly surprised experts from every perspective.

But one possibility seems worth considering.

The next political shift may not be a movement toward one party or another.

It may be a movement away from perpetual conflict.

Americans may begin rewarding candidates who spend less time attacking opponents and more time discussing solutions.

They may become less interested in political celebrities and more interested in competent managers.

They may become less concerned with winning arguments and more concerned with lowering costs, improving schools, strengthening infrastructure, and maintaining public safety.

If that happens, the political landscape could change rapidly.

Not because voters changed their beliefs.

But because they changed their priorities.

Perhaps the most important question facing the nation is not whether America will become more conservative or more progressive.

“Please just let me drive to work in peace”

It may be whether Americans decide they are simply exhausted by the constant fight.

And if enough people reach that point, the next great political movement could be something surprisingly rare in modern politics:

A movement toward peace, practicality, and common ground.

The future remains uncertain.

But if history teaches anything, it is that voters eventually tire of turmoil.

The question is whether that moment is approaching once again.


 

Do You Know Where He Was Last Week?

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June 9, 2026

Pre-Trip Medical Evaluation For Politicians Over 70

Prepping Him For The Road Trip

Many physicians recommend a comprehensive health assessment before an extended speaking tour, especially if it involves frequent travel, time zone changes, or multiple appearances.

This might include:

  • Cardiovascular evaluation
  • Medication review
  • Blood work
  • Sleep assessment
  • Mobility and fall-risk evaluation
  • Vaccinations if international travel is involved

Hydration and Nutritional Support

Some physicians may recommend:

  • Intravenous (IV) hydration before travel if a person is prone to dehydration
  • Nutritional supplementation if deficiencies are present
  • Vitamin B12 injections for individuals who are deficient

It’s important to note that “wellness IVs” marketed for energy have limited scientific evidence unless treating a specific deficiency or dehydration.

Voice and Speaking Preparation

For public speakers, clergy, politicians, and entertainers:

  • Evaluation by an ear, nose, and throat specialist
  • Voice therapy with a speech-language pathologist
  • Treatment of acid reflux, which often affects vocal quality
  • Management of allergies or post-nasal drip

Sleep and Fatigue Management

A physician might:

  • Screen for sleep apnea
  • Adjust medications that cause fatigue
  • Recommend strategies for jet lag and circadian adjustment

Physical Conditioning Programs

Many older speakers benefit from:

  • Physical therapy
  • Balance training
  • Walking and endurance programs
  • Pulmonary rehabilitation if lung issues exist

Cognitive and Mental Performance

Some individuals undergo:

  • Cognitive screening
  • Memory assessments
  • Stress management training
  • Performance coaching for public speaking

What Most Public Figures Actually Do

Many older politicians, authors, ministers, professors, and entertainers who travel extensively often receive:

  • Regular physician monitoring
  • Scheduled rest days
  • Physical therapy or exercise coaching
  • Nutritional guidance
  • Voice coaching
  • Strategic scheduling to avoid exhaustion

If You’re Thinking About Someone Around 80 Like A President…And Perhaps Drugs?

If you’re thinking about a public figure in their late 70s or 80s preparing for a speaking circuit, or appearing in public at social events, the most common medical preparation would usually be a thorough physical examination and clearance from their physician, combined with careful management of sleep, hydration, medications, and travel schedules rather than a single special procedure

There are medications that can improve alertness, stamina, concentration, and wakefulness, and some public figures, executives, entertainers, and speakers have used them under medical supervision. However, they are not magic solutions, and for older adults the risks can become significant.

Some examples include:

  • Modafinil (Provigil) and Armodafinil (Nuvigil) — prescription “wakefulness-promoting” medications originally developed for narcolepsy and other sleep disorders. They can help reduce fatigue and improve alertness.
  • Traditional stimulants such as amphetamine-based medications and methylphenidate can increase energy and focus but carry greater risks involving blood pressure, heart rate, dependence, and cardiovascular events.
  • Some physicians may prescribe medications to address underlying causes of fatigue, such as depression, sleep disorders, anemia, hormone deficiencies, or vitamin deficiencies rather than prescribing stimulants directly.

For someone in their late 70s or 80s preparing for a national speaking tour, physicians are often more interested in:

  • Sleep quality
  • Hydration
  • Nutrition
  • Cardiac health
  • Medication interactions
  • Managing jet lag and travel fatigue

Rather than simply giving a stimulant. A healthy 80-year-old can often maintain a surprisingly active schedule with careful medical management and scheduling. That is, if they lay off the Big Macs and KFC deep fried chicken legs.

Historically, there have also been legends and reports about politicians, presidents, candidates, entertainers, and television personalities using various stimulants or wakefulness-promoting medications to keep up with demanding schedules. Unless the person or their physician discloses it, however, there is usually no reliable public evidence of what medications an individual is taking. As in the case of Michael Jackson. Occassionally someone will try to set up someone with planted illegal drugs, especially if there is a grudge of some sort involved.

If you’re wondering how an 80-year-old politician or public figure could maintain a grueling travel and speaking schedule, the answer is usually a combination of:

  1. Medications are used,
  2. Strategic scheduling and rest are monitored through IV applications similar to Jacksons.
  3. Nutrition and hydration is usually abandoned and the person will fall asleep in public.
  4. Exercise and conditioning in some cases are attempted or it has ended a long time ago.
  5. Sometimes medications that improve wakefulness or treat underlying fatigue-causing conditions are used or has been attempted but no longer work.

A healthy 80-year-old can often perform far beyond what many people expect, particularly if they have access to excellent medical care and a carefully managed schedule. If that is not the case. Then there is little hope the individual will be successful in managing their own home little alone the affairs of others.


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When Presidents Disappear From View – This Isn’t The Truman Years Anymore

By Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026

June 9, 2026


Presidential Visibility in the Age of Social Media

For most of American history, citizens rarely knew where their president was every hour of every day. News traveled at the speed of newspapers, radio broadcasts, and evening television reports. A president could spend days away from public view without generating much notice.

How long out of sight can a President go without their public raising concern?
Missing – “The President of The United States” 

Today, that has changed.

In the age of social media, twenty-four-hour news cycles, and instant communication, even a few days without a public appearance can spark speculation. Questions emerge. Rumors spread. Conspiracy theories flourish.


That is exactly what happened recently when President Donald Trump was absent from public view for several days.

The speculation raises a larger question that extends beyond any one president: How much visibility do Americans expect from their leaders, and has that expectation changed with technology?

The discussion becomes even more relevant as America continues electing leaders well into their seventies and eighties. President Trump is approaching 80 years of age. Former President Joe Biden served into his eighties. Other national leaders around the world have governed well beyond what was once considered traditional retirement age.

Age alone does not determine a person’s ability to lead. History is filled with examples of individuals who remained productive, sharp, and influential well into their later years. At the same time, age naturally invites questions about health, stamina, and transparency—questions that would be asked of anyone occupying one of the most demanding jobs on Earth.

Perhaps the real story is not where a president was for a week.

Perhaps the story is how quickly Americans become concerned when they cannot see their president, hear from their president, or receive reassurance that the nation’s business is continuing as usual.

In a nation connected by smartphones, social media feeds, and constant news alerts, visibility has become a form of leadership all its own.

The question for the future may not be whether presidents can work behind closed doors.

It may be whether the American public is still willing to believe they are working when the cameras are turned off.


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The Fabric of Freedom? L.A. County Engineer Sues Over Pride Flag

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June 6, 2026


Can walking past a rainbow flag once a day create a legally recognized hostile work environment? That is the question central to a high-profile federal lawsuit rocking Los Angeles County.

You see a Progress Flag, they see a Confederate flag.
Can a flag really cause that much stress? It’s wild to think that just looking at a symbol once a day can push someone to sue their employer.
Eric Batman, a senior civil engineer with 24 years of service at the Department of Public Works, has officially sued his employer. Represented by the Liberty Counsel—the conservative Christian legal group famous for representing Kentucky clerk Kim Davis—Batman argues that the county’s June Pride flag mandate violates his constitutional rights.

The Core of the Conflict

In 2023, the Los Angeles County Board of Supervisors passed a policy requiring the Progress Pride flag to fly outside many county buildings throughout the month of June.
For Batman, who works out of the department’s Alhambra headquarters, the flag is not a symbol of inclusion, but a confrontation. According to the lawsuit, Batman holds deeply rooted Christian beliefs regarding biblical marriage and human sexuality. He contends that forcing him to walk past the flag daily compels him to “celebrate, recognize, and solemnize” actions his faith deems sinful.

Denied Remote Work and the “Back Door” Suggestion

Hoping to avoid the display entirely, Batman requested to work from home for the month of June in both 2024 and 2025. He already splits his time as a partial remote worker, meaning the logistics for a temporary work-from-home stint were already established.
However, the county flatly denied his accommodation requests. According to the lawsuit, county supervisors stated that remote work conflicted with their commitment to a “welcoming environment for all”. Instead, management offered two alternatives:
  • Use the rear entrance: Enter and exit the Alhambra building through the back door to avoid looking at the front flagpole.
  • Seek mental health counseling: Utilize county-provided counseling if the flag caused him emotional or spiritual distress.
Batman rejected both offers, viewingly the suggestion of “counseling” for his religious convictions as an overtly hostile act by management.

The Legal Argument: A Clash of Rights

Filed in the U.S. District Court for the Central District of California (Eric Batman v. Los Angeles County et al.), the suit claims violations under:
  1. Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964 (Religious Discrimination)
  2. The First Amendment (Free Exercise of Religion and Freedom from Compelled Speech)
  3. The Fourteenth Amendment (Equal Protection)
  4. California’s Fair Employment and Housing Act (FEHA)
Batman’s lawyers highlight a crucial point of comparison: the county has previously allowed Muslim employees temporary remote work flexibility during Ramadan. By denying Batman a similar one-month accommodation, his attorneys argue the county is engaging in selective, unconstitutional bias.
Furthermore, the legal team points to the 2023 Supreme Court precedent Groff v. DeJoy, which dictates that employers must grant religious accommodations unless doing so causes “substantial increased costs” to business operations. Batman’s lawyers argue that since his work record is exemplary and he already works remotely part-time, a one-month extension carries zero burden for the county.

The Public Backlash: Where is the Line?

The lawsuit has split public opinion, triggering intense online debate:
  • Critics of the lawsuit point out that the flag is government speech on a public flagpole, not a personal mandate. They argue that simply seeing a flag on a walk into an office does not restrict an individual’s personal faith or constitute a hostile work environment.
  • Supporters of the engineer argue that true inclusivity must include people of faith. They argue that forcing an employee to sneak through a back door or suggest they need therapy for their religious beliefs crosses a clear line into institutional bullying.
This is notably the second lawsuit L.A. County faces regarding this specific flag policy, following a 2024 suit by an evangelical county lifeguard who objected to being forced to open or manage facilities flying the banner.
As the case makes its way through federal court, it serves as a stark reminder of the ongoing culture wars shifting from the political stage directly into corporate and government office spaces.
Flags at Capitol building
Progress Flag Flying High Above In Opposition Of Confederate Flag At Capitol Building

BUT WHY DO PEOPLE LOOK AT A PIECE OF MATERIAL IN SUCH A WAY

Some conservative and religious critics draw this comparison to explain the depth of their objection.

From their perspective, the comparison is about how a symbol can represent a hostile ideology rather than a message of inclusion. However, historians, legal scholars, and social analysts point out that the two flags represent fundamentally different historical and structural concepts.
The comparison can be broken down into two distinct viewpoints:
1. The Perspective of Religious and Conservative Critics
For individuals who share the engineer’s viewpoint, the comparison is based on the emotional and cultural impact of the symbol:
  • Symbol of Exclusion: Critics argue that the Progress Pride flag has moved beyond a symbol of civil rights and now represents a specific political ideology that excludes traditional religious beliefs.
  • Perceived Hostility: From this viewpoint, seeing the flag flying on government property feels like an official endorsement of values that contradict their faith, creating a sense of being unwelcome or marginalized in their own workplace.
  • Compelled Culture: They view the widespread adoption of the flag by corporations and government agencies as a form of cultural dominance, similar to how marginalized groups view the dominant display of controversial historical symbols.
2. The Historical and Sociological Context
Scholars, civil rights advocates, and supporters of the Pride flag argue that comparing the two symbols is a false equivalence due to their origins and purposes:
Feature The Progress Pride Flag The Confederate Flag
Core Purpose Symbolizes inclusion, equal rights, and protection for a historically marginalized minority group. Symbolizes the Confederacy, a historical rebellion fought to maintain the institution of chattel slavery.
Historical Context Emerged from grassroots civil rights movements (beginning with the 1978 Gilbert Baker flag) to advocate against discrimination and violence. Used by a wartime government explicitly dedicated to white supremacy and the subjugation of Black Americans.
Modern Usage Flown by institutions to signal a welcoming, diverse environment and compliance with anti-discrimination laws. Frequently used by hate groups, white supremacists, and anti-government movements as a symbol of intimidation.

Summary

While a conservative employee may experience a genuine sense of personal or religious discomfort seeing the Pride flag—viewing it as a symbol of an ideology hostile to their faith—the comparison to the Confederate flag breaks down under historical and legal analysis. One symbol was created to advocate for the inclusion of a minority group, while the other was created to defend the systemic oppression of one.
When it comes down to it, the people against the “Progressive Flag” or “Gay Flag” say they suffer the same emotional suffering as those who suffer from emotional scars from the “Confederate Flag.”
The bottom line? At the heart of the debate is a simple question: Can a symbol cause emotional harm? Those who oppose the Progress Pride flag argue that it does. Those who oppose the Confederate flag have made a similar claim for years. The disagreement is not over whether symbols carry meaning, but over which meanings society chooses to embrace and which it chooses to reject.

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When Does Opinion Become a Weapon Against a Business

© Benjamin H. Groff II — Truth Endures / benandsteve.com

June 6, 2026


The Cost of a Rumor

Targeted out of no where, for no reason!
Harley Davidson has been targeted for no apparent reason! A company that has been in good standing for over 120 years!

There was a time when if someone wanted to damage a business, they had to stand on a street corner and tell people not to shop there.

Today, all it takes is a social media account.

A single post can reach hundreds of thousands of people. A video can be shared across the country in hours. An accusation can become accepted as fact before anyone pauses to ask whether it is true.

That raises an important question:

When does criticism become defamation?

The question came to mind after reading reports about a recent social media campaign targeting Harley-Davidson.

For decades, Harley-Davidson has represented something uniquely American. Its motorcycles have become symbols of freedom, independence, veterans, road trips, and a culture that has existed for generations.

Yet over the past several weeks, social media influencers and political personalities began attacking the company, describing it as “woke,” “anti-American,” and even “gay.” At the same time, many of the same accounts were encouraging consumers to purchase motorcycles from a competing manufacturer, Indian Motorcycle. According to reporting by The Bulwark, numerous influencers appeared to be using remarkably similar talking points while simultaneously promoting Harley’s competitor. The article raised questions about whether the campaign was organic or coordinated. No evidence has publicly emerged proving who, if anyone, organized the effort.

What makes the situation unusual is that Harley-Davidson had already announced in 2024 that it had ended its DEI department and scaled back several diversity-related initiatives after previous criticism from activists. The company stated it no longer maintained a DEI function and would focus on growing motorcycling and serving its riding community.

Yet the attacks continued.

Whether readers agree or disagree with Harley-Davidson’s past decisions is not really the point.

The larger issue is what happens when public opinion is manufactured.

If a business actually engages in conduct that customers dislike, criticism is fair. Consumers have every right to spend their money where they choose.

But what if the accusations are exaggerated?

What if they are misleading?

What if they are completely false?

And what if someone is profiting from spreading those claims?

Those questions move beyond politics and into the realm of ethics.

Most Americans would likely agree that consumers deserve truthful information before making purchasing decisions. We expect truth in advertising. We expect products to perform as advertised. We expect companies not to deceive customers.

Should the same standard apply to people attempting to damage a company’s reputation?

American law has long protected free speech. It should.

But free speech and knowingly false statements have never been exactly the same thing. Businesses, like individuals, can suffer tremendous financial harm when false information spreads unchecked.

Imagine spending a lifetime building a company, employing thousands of workers, paying suppliers, supporting local communities, and creating a respected brand. Then one morning you discover strangers on the internet have decided to label your business with accusations that may bear little resemblance to reality.

The damage can be immediate.

Customers leave.

Sales decline.

Employees worry.

Investors react.

All because of something that may never have been true in the first place.

Social media has given every citizen a voice. That is one of the great achievements of the digital age.

But it has also created a world where rumors can travel farther than facts.

Perhaps the question facing America is not whether people should be allowed to criticize businesses.

Of course they should.

The real question is whether people who knowingly spread false information intended to harm a company should bear responsibility when real damage results.

That debate is likely to grow louder in the years ahead.

Because in today’s world, a rumor is no longer just a rumor.

It can become a weapon.

Closing Question

If someone intentionally spreads false information about a business for political, personal, or financial gain, should they be held responsible for the economic damage they cause?

THE BOTTOM LINE

If you hear information coming from someone. Especially a politician. Stop. Take it with a grain of salt. And then go do your own research. See if it is true. Don’t believe them when they tell you that everything you learn through research is false.

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The Boys Who Believed They Were Saving the Future

Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026 

June 1, 2026


A fading photograph of young World War II servicemen reminds us of a generation that believed sacrifice, truth, and unity could build a better America.

There is something haunting about old World War II photographs.
Not because of the uniforms.
Not because of the war itself. No photo description available.

But because of the faces.

These were not old men yet. They were boys. Farm boys. Small-town boys. Sons of mechanics, barbers, school teachers, ranchers, and church-going mothers who watched them board trains with tears hidden behind forced smiles. They left behind dirt roads, harvest fields, Saturday night dances, and families who prayed every evening they might return home alive.

The young men in this photograph likely believed what millions of others believed at the time — that their sacrifices would permanently change the world for the better.

And for a long while, it seemed they had.

After the war came neighborhoods.
Factories.
Opportunity.
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A belief in country.
A belief in community.
A belief that democracy and decency had survived one of mankind’s darkest moments.

UNITY!

Their generation became known as The Greatest Generation not because they claimed the title for themselves, but because those who followed saw what they endured and understood the price they paid.

They fought in freezing forests and burning deserts.
They crossed oceans knowing many beside them would never return.
Some came home carrying medals.
Others came home carrying nightmares they never spoke about.

Yet they built lives anyway.

They raised children to believe sacrifice mattered.
That honor mattered.
That truth mattered.
That America, despite its flaws, was worth protecting.

And now many of the things they stood for seem to be fading under the weight of division, political hatred, greed, and a society that often forgets what previous generations endured to preserve freedom in the first place.

The painful irony is this:

Many veterans spent the rest of their lives believing the nation had moved forward because of what they had done. Their families believed it too. Schools taught it. Communities honored it. Flags waved proudly for them every Memorial Day and Veterans Day.

But somewhere along the way, respect began giving way to mockery.
Service became politicized.
History became disposable.
Truth became negotiable.

The men in photographs like this never imagined a time when Americans would fight each other more fiercely than they once fought enemies overseas.

And yet here we are.

Hate, Anger and Discontent, the new American way!
Never Compromise! The New American Way…

Still, perhaps their greatest lesson was never perfection.
Perhaps it was endurance.

Because those young men were not flawless heroes from a Hollywood script. They were ordinary people who answered extraordinary times with courage. They showed future generations that democracy survives only when people are willing to sacrifice something for others besides themselves.

Maybe that is the part we are in danger of losing.

Not the uniforms.


Not the medals.
But the willingness to place country, truth, and community ahead of ego.

These young faces remind us that history was once carried on the shoulders of boys who became men far too quickly. And whether we realize it or not, the world we inherited was purchased partly through their fear, their courage, and in many cases, their blood.

The question now is whether future generations will preserve what they believed they saved.

Look at today’s world and the flood of voices insisting that fairness is weakness. That the ideals generations of Americans once believed in were somehow a lie. We are told freedom was never real, truth no longer matters, institutions cannot be trusted, and even the information we rely upon each day is designed to deceive us. Fear, division, and suspicion are being sold as wisdom. History has shown us before where that road can lead. It is the kind of confusion and distrust that tyrants have always depended upon to weaken societies from within. And perhaps the greatest danger of all is that those carrying such messages rarely arrive wearing uniforms or waving flags of conquest. More often, they arrive disguised as certainty, outrage, and easy answers for the angry, the fearful, and the uninformed


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When Truth Becomes Optional in Politics

Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026

May 31, 2026


From Arizona campaigns to national politics, voters are increasingly left trying to separate performance, outrage, and party loyalty from simple honesty.

I am having a difficult time deciding what to write about today, which honestly should not be the case. The political world alone provides enough material every hour to fill a newspaper from front page to back.

Voters lose faith in candidates unless they can believe the lies.
Truth Vs. Deception Spin opposed to Facts!

What continues to stand out to me is not simply disagreement between political parties, but the growing difficulty many candidates seem to have with remaining grounded in facts. In Arizona alone, voters have watched candidates within the same party question each other’s qualifications, attack one another’s credibility, and debate who is less suited for the office they seek.

At times it feels less like public service and more like political performance.

The larger problem may not even belong to one individual candidate. Modern campaigning has slowly evolved into a contest of slogans, outrage, and carefully packaged talking points designed more to energize loyal supporters than to inform undecided voters. Over time, repetition becomes accepted as truth simply because people hear it often enough.

That is not unique to Arizona. It has become part of the national political culture.

Years ago, former New York Governor Mario Cuomo delivered a speech to the Democratic National Convention emphasizing compassion, inclusion, and honesty in government. Whether people agreed with his politics or not, the message was centered around the belief that government should speak truthfully to the public and acknowledge the realities everyday Americans face.

Today, many voters from all sides often find themselves exhausted trying to separate fact from performance. Campaigns increasingly rely on emotional reaction, social media sound bites, and outrage-driven messaging because those methods attract attention faster than thoughtful discussion ever will.

When You Knew The Truth And It Was Obvious

The real danger in all of this is not simply that politicians stretch the truth. Politics has always involved persuasion. The danger comes when voters begin expecting exaggeration and no longer believe honesty is even possible from public officials. Once that happens, trust in the entire system begins to erode.

And perhaps that is the real story worth writing about today.

The Most Powerful Line Ever Spoken

By Benjamin GroffMedia© | benandsteve.com | ©2026

May 30, 2026


words that become legend.
They said it and it meant it. That is why it mattered!

Words matter.

Sometimes they outlive armies.
Sometimes they survive empires.
Sometimes a single sentence can echo across centuries long after the person who spoke it has turned to dust.

I got to thinking recently about what may be the coolest line ever spoken in history.

Not necessarily the smartest.
Not the most educated.
Not even the most important.

Just the line that hits you square in the chest when you hear it.

History is full of them.

“I have a dream.”

“Give me liberty, or give me death.”

“That’s one small step for man, one giant leap for mankind.”

Each sentence tied forever to a moment that changed the world.

But if there is one line that may define raw confidence itself, it may belong to Julius Caesar:

“I came, I saw, I conquered.”

Think about that for a minute.

No long explanation.
No press conference.
No carefully prepared speech from a teleprompter.

Just three short statements delivered by a man who understood the power of simplicity.

And here we are more than 2,000 years later still repeating it.

That is power.

Of course, history also gave us lines born from courage and desperation.

Patrick Henry declaring:

“Give me liberty, or give me death!”

Imagine hearing that in person during the uncertainty of revolution.

Or Nathan Hale, standing before execution, saying:

“I only regret that I have but one life to lose for my country.”

Those weren’t movie scripts.
Those were human beings staring directly into fear.

Then there are lines born from pure grit.

General George Patton once said:

“No bastard ever won a war by dying for his country. He won it by making the other poor dumb bastard die for his country.”

Now whether you agree with the language or not, that line carried the hard truth and brutality of war in a way no polished statement ever could.

And perhaps that is why some lines survive history.

They sound real.

Pearl Harbor leads to WWII
FDR Address To The Nation Following Pearl Harbor leading to WWII

Not manufactured.
Not tested by focus groups.
Not rewritten by committees.

Real words from real people living real moments.

I suppose every generation has its own unforgettable lines.

Some come from presidents.
Some from soldiers.
Some from activists.
Some from old actors, comedians, athletes, or ordinary people who happened to say something extraordinary at exactly the right moment.

Sometimes the greatest line in history isn’t famous at all.

Sometimes it is something your grandfather said sitting on a porch.

Something your mother whispered when life was difficult.

Something a police officer muttered over cold coffee at three in the morning.

Something a tired parent told their child before bedtime.

Those are the lines that stay with us too.

Words become memories.
Memories become history.

And history, in many ways, is simply the collection of sentences mankind refused to forget.

You may have a line considered quiet popular you wish to share. Please do!

“We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give”  

The final line often attributed to Winston Churchill.

— Benjamin Groff


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The Forgotten Mothers – Is Yours One Of Them?

© Benjamin H. Groff II — Truth Endures / benandsteve.com

May 28, 2026


This piece is dedicated to my mother, Marjorie Bernice (McWhirter) Groff — one of countless mothers whose sacrifices slowly faded into the background of family history. Though often overlooked by many whose lives she helped shape, she remained deeply loved and remembered by her daughter Twila and by me, Benjamin Groff. Her kindness, endurance, creativity, and quiet strength remain part of the foundation upon which our lives were built. My sister sent me a writing that deeply reflects these sentiments.

There are mothers whose names will never appear in history books.

Love Lost To Time
Mothers Whose Dedication And Love Is Forgotten

No statues will be built in their honor.
No documentaries will celebrate their sacrifices.
No crowds will gather to remember what they carried through the long years of raising families, stretching paychecks, and trying to hold homes together while the world outside kept changing.

Yet millions of us exist because of them.

They were the women who quietly gave up pieces of themselves so their children could have a little more.
A little more food.
A little more confidence.
A little more hope.
A little more time to dream.

Many worked jobs nobody respected.
Others stayed home and performed labor that was never considered “real work” by the standards of modern society, despite the fact that their days began before sunrise and often ended long after everyone else had gone to sleep.

They cooked meals while bills piled up on kitchen counters.
They sewed buttons back onto school shirts.
They patched blue jeans.
They planted flowers beside homes that weren’t fancy but somehow always felt welcoming.
They stretched hamburger meat into meals for six people and somehow made it feel normal.
They worried silently so their children would not have to.

And many of them did all of it without ever hearing the words:
“Thank you.”

What is strange about life is that children rarely understand these things while growing up.

As kids, we remember bicycles, baseball gloves, birthday cakes, and Christmas mornings.
We remember rules we disliked.
Groundings.
Arguments.
Embarrassing moments.

But later, often decades later, the mind begins returning to smaller things.

A mother carrying groceries in from the car.
Her placing a purse on the trunk before tossing a few basketballs with her child in the driveway.
The smell of face cream before church.

mother playing ball after work.
Mother Playing Ball.

The sound of a washing machine late at night. A woman standing at the kitchen sink looking exhausted while still asking everybody else if they were hungry.

The sound of the vacuum sweeper running on a Saturday morning when all you wanted to do was sleep late. Only later do you realize it was the only time she had to get it done.

Small moments.
Ordinary moments.

The kind that seemed invisible at the time.

Many of those women came from generations that were taught not to complain.
They endured hardships quietly.
Some lived through wars, recessions, alcoholism, infidelity, illness, and disappointments they never fully spoke about.
Many buried dreams they once had because survival became more important than ambition.

And then age arrived.

One by one, society moved on from them.

The world became faster.
Technology replaced conversations.
Families spread apart.
Visits became shorter.
Phone calls became less frequent.

And somewhere along the way, many mothers who once held entire families together slowly became background figures in the very lives they helped create.

Some now sit in nursing homes.
Some live alone in quiet houses.
Some stare through windows waiting for visitors who seldom come.
Some have already passed away, leaving behind closets full of recipes, photographs, sewing kits, and handwritten notes nobody quite knows what to do with.

Yet after they are gone, strange things begin happening.

A certain perfume suddenly breaks a grown man’s heart in the middle of a grocery store.
A recipe becomes impossible to duplicate because “it never tastes like hers.”
A flower garden reminds someone of childhood.
A song from the radio decades ago causes tears nobody expected.

And people slowly begin realizing something they missed while rushing through life:

Those women were never ordinary.

They were the glue.
The emotional architecture of entire families.
The steady hand behind countless lives that succeeded because someone quietly kept the world from falling apart at home.

Not perfect.
No parent ever is.

But far more important than many of us understood at the time.

Maybe the forgotten mothers are not truly forgotten after all.

Maybe they continue living in the habits they taught us.
The kindness we show others.
The recipes we still cook.
The gardens we plant.
The way we comfort our children.
The way we try to survive difficult times with dignity because we once watched them do the same.

And maybe tonight, somewhere, someone reading these words will stop for a moment and remember a woman who spent most of her life making sure others felt loved… even while much of the world overlooked her.

If so, perhaps that memory itself is a form of gratitude long overdue.

— Truth Endures
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Benjamin, Margie and Twila.
“Mama” (Marjorie) with Benjamin and Twila

Marjorie Groff 1930-2026